spouses and illegitimate children Community Group

Dealing with your spouse not only having an affair but a child as a result and how it affects your day to day life and the lives of your children.

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BarefootBlue
BarefootBlue

Hey ladies!


I was locked out of DS for a while after they did their upgrade, but I finally got them to let go of my email (it was telling me I could not use my email because it had an account, but then telling me I couldn't reset the account because there was no account with the email!) so that I could get back. 


All has been quiet on our end, so far, since our last court date. But H's mental health have been struggling.


About to settle down and read any new posts since my lockout. 


(((Hug!)))


Formerly BarefootWife

Stillpinkpony
Stillpinkpony
Hey there. I had to make anew account after they changed the entire site. I still hate this "new" layout. I rarely visit here anymore.

My current situation isn't great. Im not happy in my marriage and seriously considering divorce.

No further cheating that I know of. But still lies about the stupidest shit.

there are a thousand little things that he and I could work on. However none of them matter when there's lying. Lying is my deal breaker.

I know that he will never change.
AuntTAnn
AuntTAnn
Hi PinkPony, I rarely come . here anymore either. First I stayed away because of the new layout. Then I felt like I didn't have anything to say. I feel like all I do here is wallow in self-pity. The OC is here now for the holiday. She's fine, but BS goes overboard for her in a way he never did for our kids. Granted, he doesn't work now and is bored, but it breaks my heart to see the preferential treatment. I hate it, but if I left it would get worse. The whole thing sucks.