Just checking in. "Sober" for three days now.

Hello every one my name is Antonio J and I am a liar. I recently joined and may have destroyed the one good thing I have in my life because of my lying. I don't know what todo. I'm not even sure if this is where this type of thing goes. I need help to save my wife from all the pain I have caused.

Happy Friday everyone!!! My name is Gabriel and I am a liar. Day 14 lie free! Things are going well overall. It is still a daily struggle not to lie but that is ok. I am able to focus on being honest and mending my relationships.

I think my fiancee is coming around and believes that I am serious about changing this time. She, and her daughter, are the driving motivators when things get tough. I want to change for myself but I can't imagine my life without her in it and when I think of them it gives me strength. My lies already cost me a marriage a few years back, I have finally found someone who loves me even more and I don't want to lose her also.

I hope everyone has a great lie free day!!!

Here's one from Mark Twain: If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything.

Happy lie free Friday to all and a special thanks to Larry for leading last evening's online meeting - well done my friend!

Day 4! A new personal record of no lies.

Happy Saturday. During our Thursday online meeting a couple folks talked about disclosing lying to others. I found this in some of the literature.

Your relationship with another is just that, it is NOT an encounter group.
You do NOT have to tell your life history until there is trust which is built incrementally.
Good judgement, a careful sense of timing, courage and prudence are the qualities one needs when determining if or when to disclose your lying or to make amends.

Remember this is not about making yourself feel better by proclaiming you've found the light and are no longer a liar - this is about not causing harm to others.

Hello, I'm just checking in for yesterday. Good day, no lies told. The more days I go without telling a lie, the more motivation I have to keep going.

well done Pabs - Yesterday was a good day, today and equally good day - wish I could bottle this

I slipped today. Resetting the count. But I still feel things getting better, I admitted the truth faster than before and felt more courage to come clean.

Good for you Pabs. Don't get discouraged - Hang in there. Progress is progress. I can't even tell you how many times I had to start my counter over. Each span was a little longer than the last one though and you like you I got faster at correcting the lie. I am now on Day 34. Felt like I was never going to get to a month but now it is here :-) I am feeling stronger every day and more at peace with my new truth filled, higher power filled life. Change is hard and painful but it is the path to peace. Peace out...

Well done Iswan! Pabs - it is progress not perfection - keep up the good work. May everyone enjoy a lie-free Monday

Hi my name's Eric,

I haven't lied today, but I don't lie every day and I definitely lied yesterday. My wife and i are in conflict.

Checking in, thanks for the encouragement, I really appreciate it. No lies today so that makes day two! Still a day at a time.

just checking in - yesterday was lie-free - wish I could bottle this good feeling. Happy lie-free Tuesday to all

Just checking in. Lie free again today, borntorun, I know what you mean about bottling up the good feeling.