I havent told a lie in the past week . I just hope this isnt alie, because I really cant remember having done so.

It's news years morning and I have been awake for 1 hour. I have not told a lie in one hour. I have destroyed my boyfriends trust in me and I have ruined our relationship beyond repair. He deserves to be happy and in a loving & trusting relationship. My lies have made this impossible so long as he is with me. I need real help.

It's news years morning and I have been awake for 1 hour. I have not told a lie in one hour. I have destroyed my boyfriends trust in me and I have ruined our relationship beyond repair. He deserves to be happy and in a loving & trusting relationship. My lies have made this impossible so long as he is with me. I need real help.

Stay strong Misti! We're all here for you!

I'm Bryan and I'm a liar. I haven't lied for manipulated the truth for five days.

Well I made it through yesterday without lieing. I caught myself several times and had to correct myself. I don't understand why I keep doing it. They are stupid lies too.

I'm a liar too. Been honest for 4 days.

My name is Kimberly and I am a liar... I've tried therapy but I just end up lying in it. I've lied about many things, some little and some very very huge.

I'm a liar too. Did not lie yesterday and will try for day two. I understand what you are going through Kimberly.

My name is Mitchell and I am a liar.It has ruined my life.I need people with the same problems to talk to and hopefully help me.

New to the group ;-) have lied in relationships and have hit rock bottom recently.
My bf has gotten sooo frustratedwith me he is on the verge of cuttin me loose... I have told him
All of the things I'm doing to change andthat I'm on mi wayto become a trust worthy person.. but he
Is showing me no support.. don't know what to do or say... this is not what I want... I want to get better
And have a honest. Close relationship...

New to the group ;-) have lied in relationships and have hit rock bottom recently.
My bf has gotten sooo frustratedwith me he is on the verge of cuttin me loose... I have told him
All of the things I'm doing to change andthat I'm on mi wayto become a trust worthy person.. but he
Is showing me no support.. don't know what to do or say... this is not what I want... I want to get better
And have a honest. Close relationship...

I had a multi-week abstinence streak going strong when i got busted on a lie Sunday night... I wasn't even AWARE that I was lying, but upon further consideration, yup... I was well and truly busted. It hardly seems fair, since I didn't really know I was lying! <at least I don't think so>, but I've started back over, again...

It took years to create this problem and differentially reinforce it... it ain't going away in a few weeks, but if I keep working at it, I know the gaps between failures will grow longer and longer until one day, I hope for complete 'remission.' I'd love to be 'healed' but i suspect that 'remission' is as good as we can get.

catching up ons ome back-reading...
> For all of you men that strive to be better, I have dedicated this song
> to me and to you... it hits the nail on the head -
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWc...
that song just BURIED me in tears, BrokenMan.

thanks *sniff*

Hi, I’m Ron and I’m a compulsive liar. First post, new to the group, been an addict to mostly everything, alcohol, marijuana, sex, and lying all through it. Been in various 12-step recovery programs and haven’t drank or used drugs for over 23 years, sex addiction recovery for over three years, but the lying has continued in other ways. I justify it by assigning “noble” reasons, like to keep my wife from feeling bad, lie mostly about money, don’t spend it secretly or unwisely, just don’t tell her about it when business is bad and try to make ends meet and when they don’t, she finds out and it is worse. Starting today, must be open about all business activities. She is my partner and deserves to know the truth.