Hi, I am new to this but I am Ashley and I am a liar who wants to learn to the truth - Even when I speak the truth, the one person I want to believe me - doesn't :(

New super moon tonight! Believe in your truth. Listen to that higher self that you feel every time you choose to tell a lie. Let go of what no longer serves you. When your house is right and solid and bright others want to come in.

PS: But it is your house! Not a house that your partner, or friend, or work mate might want. It is the "house" that is you. Decorated the way that is real for you. Colors you choose; not what you think others might like. Then those people attracted to YOUR HOUSE come into your life authentically.

Day 52...happy Friday all...Brittany...be blessed on your new beginnings. ..so happy for you! This has been a busy week for me...no lies told but beginning to stand even firmer in my stance...my mew job is great and l love it. ..however this has been a very challenging week for my lady...and this time it is not because of any lies being told. Standing in truth sometimes doesn't mean taking any action but standing still...and thinking a d being a support IN that truth. Trust those familiar things w I'm ll rise up and entice you to go back to that comfort zone of what made lying easy for all of us....we have all seen the damage it has done, and in these posts by everyone seen how some healing and recovery has taken place...why return to something like that? One moment at a time...one day at a time....KEEP POUNDING!!!

TGIF! Einstein said "Life is like riding a bicycle. To maintain your balance you have to keep moving". Keep moving forward and all have a great weekend!

Daily check in. Working on moving out of the old and forward into this adventure of life. My back 9! They will be played with new found enthusiasm of being my true self! Hope all are well and achieving happiness inside!

My name is Bob and in an aa meeting today, I realized that by
Lying I am trying to control the outcome and not admit I am powerless. For me lying is no different than drinking

Good Evening my name is Brittany and I am a recovering liar.
This is my daily check in. I learned in church to higher my standards within myself, work, my relationship, and to remain teachable. My boyfriend is the best an most supportive man I have come to known. We have been through a lot but if I keep pushing forward we will not be back in that spot again.
I'm getting to know myself more and love myself.
We all can make it, it just takes faith. Good luck to you all in your own personal journeys.

Great day. It is not what's behind you or what is in front of you that matters, it's what inside of you. All have a good up coming week!

Day 54...hope you all were true to yourselves. My lady and l are making progress, she had a pretty emotiional week and sometimes in living truth as much as l wanted to help l stepped back and just gave my support. I was faced with a discretion regard monies l collected to purchase some shorts last night...and while l had already addressed the issue with those directly involved the issue came up again in a public forum. I addressed and said that it would be resolved if not this week, it would be done by the end of the month. The issue was brought up again privately to which admitted that l had mismanaged the funds collected and have every intention of making those people who had paid money whole. Man l tell you, that was one of the toughest things l had to admit but in order to go forward there are some things you have to correct. Your trust level again is on the forefront and you just have to face it, correct it, move forward and not repeat that issue again. One day at a time people...keep pounding!

Today is the 80th consecutive day I have checked in with the daily site. I have done so as a commitment to myself to get this right. It takes work and perseverance to change behavior patterns that started years ago. It feels good to grow (up). Stay committed and "keep pounding" all. It's all about you after all.

My name is David, I'm new to the site and I'm a liar. Hopefully I can get some help and not have this feeling of fear constantly within me.

Day 18 - 22 lie free. Plugging along, getting through and trying to stay true to myself.

Faced some hiccups this weekend...I didn't lie but I didn't act trustworthy. My compulsion to look at my husband's phone and contacts, overruled my logical thinking brain. I feel ashamed and terrible about it, especially because I promised I wouldn't look. Well being left in limbo on the status of our relationship...I made some poor decisions. I did it a while ago, and he suspected I had, so he asked me. At the very least I didn't lie when asked, so I guess that's an improvement, but in his eyes I am still untrustworthy, and I have to agree he's right.

Not sure where things are at. Trying to not even worry about it and only worrying about me and my journey.

Welcome David and Ashley. You're in a great spot for support on this journey. Stay positive, even when it feels impossible.

1Cor I am again mystified. An open relationship between two people means keep no secrets. Secrets are lies by omission! Why wouldn't you have access to your husband's phone? My phone is transparent to my partner!! She is welcome to use and inspect 24/7. And he should have access to yours reciprocally. I'm just saying! Learning not to be judgemental but needed to put that out there before you beat yourself over it.

I have not been keeping track of the days but everything has been good. My boyfriend asked me about a dent in the hood of my car that I lied about awhile ago and I told the truth about what happened. He was wondering why I would even lie in the 11st place about something I didn't do and had no reason to lie about But he was not mad. He was happy I told the truth and life did not stop like I used to think it would have by telling the truth.
The truth is really the way to go I have been feeling sooooo much better since I started telling the truth and going to church.
We have been having great and meaningful conversations and have been spending a lot of time together to work pass the events that happened and the lying.


1Cor - you shouldn't have to feel bad about looking at the phone because it shouldn't be an issue. It is only an issue when something is being hidden. I used to hide my phone all the time and we all know where that ended. But every since I changed my number and got rid of everything that was causing me to feel like I needed to lie, I give my boyfriend my phone with no problem I don't feel like someone I don't want him to know about may call or text. Because they won't. Anyone I talk to on the regular would be family besides him. And his phone is always out.
Don't let anyone stop your progress or your show.