Good morning all,
Hope everyone is doing well on this Friday and remaining diligent in their efforts to stay lie free.

Anybody in LA who would like to meet and share, and potentially start a pathological liars anonymous meeting?

7 days so far from lying. Today is a pretty good day the lady still thinks I'm hiding stuff from her cause our history shows that shes right. But there isn't anything that I'm hiding.she thinks I'm hiding stuff because my story doesn't add up but I'm not that kinda person that would cheat or anything like that. So there a little argument going on but I'll stay strong and postive and continue to stay clear from lying. Thanks for reading stay strong everyone .

Yay I just scheduled an appointment to see a counselor! !!

Good Morning everyone,

I hope the weekend was good all around, it's been a couple days but I'm just checking in to say that I made it 48 hours without even being tempted to lie, it was a fairly laid back weekend, so that could of been part of it. But it just felt nice to be able to go through the day and not get that little feeling that makes you want to shy away from the truth.

Anthony... I know the feeling. It's really frustrating to be telling the truth but to be accused otherwise. You don't have any evidence to support you, but like you said, history shows that you're the liar. All you can do is be patient, and not defensive.

Counselor/therapy is the way to go, in my opinion. You have absolutely nothing to gain by lying to this person, so first of all, it's good practice to start telling the ugly truth. And in the process, you get help and insight into why you have this problem and how to fix it. That's been my experience so far, anyway.

Keep checking in everyone.

(Sorry, I don't live in LA.)

hi my name is alex. i was a liar. today is my 4th day of honesty. i also began my workout program today: day 1.

Thanks for the support jlsrbl. I went to my first therapist session today and wow I loved it the future looks brighter then ever. I wish I would have done this earlier. Alot to process what we went over but I'm going to think about what we went over and my patterns /themes of why I lie. So I'll write it out at some point in a journal entry sometime this week when I get some time. Thanks guys for support hang in there everyone! !! Also went another day with out lying and me and the lady had a pretty fun day together

Way to go Anthony, keep your head up man! I'm glad your first meeting was positive, I can't wait to read about it further.

Hello everyone!
Its been way too long since I've been on here. Things are going well with my counseling, I've been going once a week. I just got done with today's session. We spent today digging through the little lies and exaggerations I tell on a daily basis, digging through them to find the motivations and what not. Its hard to work though it all, but I am worthy of these challenges.
Things are also improving between me and my Boyfriend. I have been honest with him about everything, and while he can't trust me, because of my lying, he is willing to try. I've made my recovery an open book. He has access to all of my journals, he went to a meeting with my counselor, and I've signed a disclosure agreement, so he can call her anytime to check in with her. We are sleeping in the same bed almost every night, and we even went on a date this weekend!
Have hope, all you new to this struggle. The work is hard, but the outcomes are so worth it.

hi my name is alex. i was a liar. today is my 5th day of honesty. no work out today as i am under the weather

I relapsed tonight...
So, here's to day 0 of honesty.
I will start again tomorrow.
"progress not perfection"

Day 22, checking in. Just keep going forward everyone.

Hi i am Carlos....my last lie was yesterday. Caused major chasm in my marriage...one i dot think has the ability to get fixed....but im still standing and am trying to get help.

hi i'm alex, i was a liar. today is my 6th day of honesty. will work out after dinner for day 2