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  Posted by: aloneandafraid

  Posted: 10/20/2016

  aloneandafraid commented on the discussion Is this petty?.

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  Playing Games

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  Last Reply: jojored 10/22/2016

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  My sbtbx and I ended our relationship on last Friday and I kicked him out. He called the police because l didn't want to give him his gun. I was highly emotional and upset and didn't really want him to go. The police made me give it to him. Afterward I gathered all of his personal items and placed them in the garage and left the entry door unlocked. On Tuesday he came to get his things and there were some leftover. He said he would return Saturday to get the rest and our tv. On Wednesday he...

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  Posted: 10/19/2016

  aloneandafraid commented on the discussion Should I??.

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  Should I??

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  Last Reply: jojored 10/22/2016

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  I was talking to a family member about my situation and he thinks I should follow my stbx to have confirmation of his cheating. He feels that seeing it for my own eyes will allow me to get the hurt and pain out so I can heal and move on.  I already assume that this is the case and #2, he is not worried about how me and the kids are doing so I don't want to give him any more energy. What do you guys think?

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  Posted: 10/19/2016

  aloneandafraid commented on the discussion All good things end...

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  Am I screwed?

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  Last Reply: strongandsilent 10/19/2016

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   I spoke with a lawyer and this is what they have to say. My house is free and clear so he would get 1/2 the equity,  all bills are split down the middle even if the other persons name is not on the debt as the debt was acquired during the marriage,  spousal support not likely as incomes are similar and child support only till age 18 and my son is 16. I don't have the money to buy him out of the house nor to pay the attorney any ideas from those whom have been the on what else I can do? He...

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  Is this petty?

  Posted by: aloneandafraid

  Last Reply: trueblue 10/21/2016

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  My spouse of 17 years left last week. He was cheating and emotionally disconnected prior to leaving. Now that he is gone he wants to be civil. My issue is I am angry and hurt and don't feel like making things easy for him when he has made life very hard for me and our kids..am I being petty? How should I deal with him?

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  Posted: 10/18/2016

  aloneandafraid commented on the discussion Spouse is leaving for the 2nd time.

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  Spouse is leaving for the 2nd time

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  Last Reply: jojored 10/19/2016

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  Hello all, I new to the board and my spouse left last Friday after a nasty fight.  We had been arguing for weeks about how he said his feelings have changed and he was not coming home at the same times as before. When I would push him to communicate he would get defensive and angry. In turn I would get emotional and things would blow up from there. My kids are 23, 20 and 16 and they are sad and angry and feel it is my fault.  My son blew up at me and left with his dad and his dad dropped him...