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- I feel like a totally different person now. I'm a nurse and have always loved taking care of people and had a huge amount of empathy. Now I can't see beyond myself. When I see people post things on Facebook like, worst week of my life, water heater...
- So tonight, I'm grieving my marriage. For some reason listening to all "our" songs. I wish I could talk to my husband and ask him why he did this to us. I've been thinking of writing him a letter but I don't know if that's a good idea given the...
- So I've resigned myself to the fact this could take years to resolve and that it's all just completely out of my control. I've taken ending my life off the table as I could never do that to my kids especially as my daughter would blame herself. So...
- Ever since our investigation started we've been pressed by the police to get my daughter in counseling. There was a waiting list and she has had 4 sessions so far. Today she decided she didn't want to go anymore. I admit I don't really click with...
- So apparently my soon to be ex husband's lawyer filed a motion of discovery today. I know this means his defense team will have access to statements but does anyone know if he will get to read mine and my daughter's statements? I definitely don't...
- Me and my daughter returned from our south American retreat/vacation today and recieved an email letting us know that her abuser (my soon to be ex husband) appealed his bond denial and was denied by the high court again this week. He can't request...
- My husband was extradited to the states where the assaults occurred in the last couple of days. The judge read my emails about why I felt he was a danger to the community and a flight risk and today his bond was denied. I know he will try and fight...
- I went from being completely besotted with the "love of my life" to completely no contact literally over night after the disclosure. This is my first Christmas being single in 16 years. Don't get me wrong I'm feeling relief that the arrest has been...
- Relief and excitement. Right before Christmas and my "husband" the monster has been apprehended by US Marshalls!!!!! Best Christmas present ever. He will not be eligible for a bail hearing until he is extradited to the state where the assaults...
- The marshals have had the arrest warrant for 7 days. He's still constantly messaging my family trying to get in touch with me and has no idea what's going on. At this point I'm starting to feel like I'd rather be dead or in jail than live another...
- Arrest is imminent in our case as I have found out it has been passed over to the Marshalls service to execute the warrant the beginning of this week. In my previous post another mother expressed that she wished she had retained legal...
- If any of you read my previous post earlier this week I was ready to give up. I couldn't take it anymore. I didn't think it could get any worse. Well, we got the call, an arrest warrant was issued yesterday for criminal sexual conduct with a child...
- It's almost 5 months since the disclosure.... No legal action has been taken against my husband. Detectives are now saying may have a decision by the end of this week. I'm angrier than ever. He still doesn't know that I know. He still tries to...
- I'm really stressed out today. I think I've mentioned in the group before that we are currently living in a different country to my daughter's abuser. We've been told that we may have to travel back to the USA more than once if the case goes to...
- It's been almost 3 months since my daughter told me my husband had been having sex with her between the ages of 8-10. We've done interviews and medical examinations but nothing has been done. We are living in another country to him so everything...