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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: seeker01

  Posted: 05/24/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion thinking about breaking up soon....

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  Head and heart

  Posted by: seeker01

  Posted: 05/23/2017

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  Going on 5 months of almost zero contact with my ex-fiance.  Because we share so many friends and activity groups our paths have crossed.  I feel I have been through the ringer of emotion, anxiety, sadness and lonliness but just had a breakthrough as I attended a trip solo with old friends and was accepted throughly for exactly who I am.  I am getting interest from several men and I know if I am open to the relationship I could move in that direction.  My ex knows what is happening.  He is...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: seeker01

  Posted: 05/16/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion How to end it...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 05/14/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion setback.

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  Posted: 05/13/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion setback.

• Anxiety
  

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  Posted: 05/12/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion fear of not sleeping.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  setback

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  Last Reply: Sundancer 05/14/2017

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  Its been 4 1/2 months since any contact with my ex-fiance and day by day I felt i was getting stronger and more myself than ever.  Then I showed up at an event that he was not supposed to be at and we talked.  I told him I am healthy and going through a lot of self-realization- I didnt tell him that I am doing extensive EMDR (a type of therapy for trauma) and have been at times gut-wrenching lonely and questioning myself.  He said he was still madly in love with me and though has done some...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: seeker01

  Posted: 04/27/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion reflecting.

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  reflecting

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  Last Reply: seeker01 04/27/2017

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  Have been experiencing a lot of pain and suffering after the end of my 13 year relationship with my ex-fiance and boyfriend.  Im trying to be brutally honest with myself and my contribution to our demise, but I am feeling confident ending the relationship stuck in the mud was the right thing to do before starting a life-long committment that I didnt feel confidence in.  Its baffling how dysfuntional communication can go on and on and we can rationalize and justify lingering in mediocrity out...

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  Posted by: seeker01

  Posted: 04/25/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion Dating Website.

• Depression
  

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  Posted: 03/20/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion I need someone to cry with tonight..

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: seeker01

  Posted: 03/20/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion Things seem hopeless..

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 03/15/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion Never ending.

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: seeker01

  Posted: 03/11/2017

  seeker01 commented on the discussion a letter.