Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Have been experiencing a lot of pain and suffering after the end of my 13 year relationship with my ex-fiance and boyfriend. Im trying to be brutally honest with myself and my contribution to our demise, but I am feeling confident ending the relationship stuck in the mud was the right thing to do before starting a life-long committment that I didnt feel confidence in. Its baffling how dysfuntional communication can go on and on and we can rationalize and justify lingering in mediocrity out of fear. We are both working professionals with famlies and full lives, and yet with eachother all our skeletons and ghosts of our past emotional lives were lurking around the entire time without confrontation. We tried counselling, but never practiced and perfected the broken relating patterns. We get left to ourselves looking in the mirror alone and asking "now what?" and "why?" There's no way around it- loss of love is painful- I just am trying to refocus and hope I wake up one day and say...ok..- now I get it.
Seems like love should be simple. That's where I want to be.
That helps us a lot by just getting Honest and
facing things as pain filled as they are. Let Yourself
grieve your losses, it helps with your healing.
I reread your other post too. Keep working On
yourself to move thru this, go to therapy To help
you process everything. Personally i would join
an alanon group too.
None of that old stuff will just Go away all on its
own. I have 60 years of muck to wade thru myself
and its not been easy or simple. I hope my next
Relationship will be much easier and healthier as
I keep moving forward. HUGS