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  Posted by: bloomy

  Posted: 10/11/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Should I stay or should I go.

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  Should I stay or should I go

  Posted by: bloomy

  Last Reply: invisibleme 10/11/2016

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  it's been a while since I last posted anything... I've been trying to get my life together,but it's been a crazy.  I've been married to my husband for 22 years.  My husband has had a drinking problem that has gotten worse over the last 4 years.  He's been going out drinking stating that he was going out with guy friends... things were not making sense and I had come across one of his texts when I tried to turn off music he had running from his phone. The text was with one of his employees...

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  Another blow

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  Last Reply: IamDonetoday 09/09/2016

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  In past postings I have mentioned that my AH has accused me of not being supportive, etc, etc.  I have also mentioned his questionable relationship he has had with his employee.  I recently had gone into our cell phone account and found that he had been texting his employee every evening on a regular basis. My counselor then advised me that I should confront him about this, which I did and he then turned the conversation into to me not trusting him and that our marriage was over....don't know...

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  Posted: 08/31/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Don't know where to turn now.....

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  Don't know where to turn now....

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  Last Reply: IamDonetoday 08/31/2016

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  Just when I thought that things might be getting better, my world was turned upside down again.  In the past Ibhad come across some texts that my AH had sent to his employee which implied that something was going on between them... I confronted him and he stated that nothing physical was going on between them... I then questioned the statements the two of hem had said to each other, and he then said drinking made him do that.  We started to see a marriage counselor and he stated there that he...

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  Posted: 08/30/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Feel like I'm going to break.

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  Posted: 08/24/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Another night in hell.

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  Posted: 08/24/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Everything is crashing down ...,.

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  Posted: 08/24/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Everything is crashing down ...,.

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  Posted: 08/19/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Two things.

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  Posted: 08/19/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Everything is crashing down ...,.

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  Everything is crashing down ...,

  Posted by: bloomy

  Last Reply: Kellie 09/06/2016

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  Just when I thought maybe there was light at the end of the tunnel, had another terrible night with my AH.  The argument was around a news story we had seen almost a year ago about a former neighbor of ours who had struggled with an addiction issue and over came that.  I had forgotten about that news story and my AH took offense stating that not remembering this story was basically an example of my not being concerned about his issues because at the time the story aired, we had discussed his...

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  Posted: 08/19/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion First time looking for a support group.

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  Posted: 08/17/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Alcoholic partner.

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  Posted: 08/17/2016

  bloomy commented on the discussion Just another night.