kdMac
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- What the hell does that really mean? Apparently it means; you are good enough to have sex with, to talk to, to do stuff for me and to be the mother to our children- but I don't want to live with you anymore and I certainly do not want to think...
- For all of you ST fans- I highly recommend this movie.... I think it was the best one yet (and even if you are not a big ST fan- it's entertaining enough for anyone). I had a fabulous date with my 8 year old son... probably the best one I have had...
- Did you find that you hit a new stage in your "divorce process journey" when you started to notice other men again? For 18 years, I really didn't see men (other than my husband) as sexual beings- I might notice if someone was attractive but that...
- So you finally get to the point where you can see that your stbx is not a good fit for you- they are either too broken/dysfunctional, you have grown too far apart, or you realize that he/she is just not that into you anymore (maybe they have a new...
- Do any of you who are 35+ years old (and were married for a long time)ever start to worry that your marriage consumed your youth and you are now left as a limp dish rag...?Just having one of those days when I look around and everyone I see seems so...
- If a genie appeared and offered you one wish to create the man/woman of your dreams for one night-what would you do with him/her?I have been thinking of what it would be like to have the "man of my dreams" here tonight... I think we would slow dance...
- I am going to be divorced soon (we separated 3/1 and will likely be divorced by 6/1)- it's going fairly well so far (thank god!)- but I am curious about the custody issue. I will have total custody (physical and legal) but of course want the kids'...
- My stb- narcissistic- x has a new Narcissist Supplier (a subordinate at his work) who seems pretty unstable herself(she is married with children and at this point does not want to leave her husband- she is very controlling and reactive and blows hot...
- Just sitting here at work, having one of those terrible moments where you can't breathe and just want to cry... so I jumped on DS (just read EastCoastAj's post- so cute!) and was able to laugh again... I really don't know what I would do without...
- Please forgive the long-windedness of this post...Hi, I am new to this group (I joined the break up and divorce group a little over a month ago)and I am really hoping that I will be able to learn from all of you to promote positive healing and...
- I have read that many of you, like me, lived with a spouse diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder. I know I have some deep wounds to heal and want to move forward to become a completely healthy person again. I am in counseling, but...
- So it's Friday night... I am home with my three kids (which I am not complaining about really- I am grateful to have them with me)... and the stbx calls to tell me he is going out with his gang so he won't be calling to say goodnight to the kids.......
- I have recently concluded that at this point the biggest reason I am sad is that I am letting go of my "dream"... my future hopes and dreams with my stbx (we had big "retirement years" dreams, and I also just really enjoyed the idea of being married...
- Good Morning Everyone- I was curious for those of you have narcissistic stbx's or x's... I have been separated for about six weeks now. In that time, I have gone through nearly every emotion on the spectrum. Up until this point, I have really...
- I do okay (not great) but okay when I don't see him (there are good days and not so good days), but he visits on Saturdays to see the kids and it still kills me! He acts like it's just a normal Saturday (in fact today he fell asleep in the...