Magenta111
Status: Trying to hang on
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- Hi,I'm glad to find this group. I am a single mom and my 20 yr old daughter has not spoken to me since June 2012. As you all know, the pain is unbearable. She is across the country from me. I'll share my story later, as it is so painful, I have a...
- So tired of everything. My 20 year old daughter isn 't speaking too me. She never wanted for anything in her life. I gave up everything for her. Friends are a constant disappointment. I could disappear tomorrow and no one would noitce. No one...
- I've been progressively drinking more and more over the past 3 years. I had a successful career,lost my job and have struggled finding a "real" job, spent most of my savings trying to survive and have been drinking to combat the loneliness and...
- So the civil stipulatoin I spend $4,000 in legal fees is a joke. I saw him twice this week in MY gated neighborhood on his bike. Then he LIES and accuses to trying to have contact with me. I got a threatening letter from his attorney, delivered by...
- I had a pretty nice weekend, but now it's Monday and I can't get out of bed ;( I feel held down by depression. I am trying to work a 100% commission job, so not working means no money. I just can't make sales calls and face the rejection. . I...
- I feel like the only way I get validation if from attracting the opposite sex. It's not what I'm seekng as a healthy long term relationship, but my short term fix needs seem to be met. Help... how do I get out of this!
- As I sit here reading the posts of others, I am so saddened, weeping uncontrollably. My pain is shared with so many others and I think I forgot I'm not the only one suffering with such pain from depression, job loss, financial issues, foreclosure...
- I finally left the abusive BF and now that he has seen me out dating someone new he has filed for a restraining order against me. Everything was a bunch of lies, but now I've had to hire an attorney $2000 to fight this bastard. He doesn't work...
- I finally ended a year of hell only to end up in worse hell.. Ex BF has seen me out with the new guy I am dating. He started calling and emailing and I ignored all. Finally I picked up his call and told him to leave me ALONE. Now he's filed a...
- Wow, after a year of a roller coaster relationship, I finally hit bottom yesterday. The short version.... He is recoving from back surgury, which he belives gives him the right to over dose on pain meds (not a new problem), he took so many pills he...
- How did I let him suck me back in again!!! The master manipulator tried every angle until he found the one that worked. Yes, he gave me everthing that was missing from the first time around, but I knew it was too good to be true. Now two months...
- My boyfriend of one year suffers from chronic back pain (spinal stenosis and degenerative disc disease) I try so hard to be supportive and understanding, but it\'s destroying our relationship. I don\'t understand how he can be biking 20 miles one...
- How do I stop giving so much and expecting my kindness to be returned? While I'm giving of my time and energy, I enjoy it, but alway end up hurt and disappointed when I don't feel reciprocated by my boyfriend. I've tried discussing my expectations...
- Everytime - I fall for his promises to change, the flowers sent, the kind words. He is kind and wonderful and full of promises each time and I believe him. The "good" side lasts about 48 hours. Then he resorts to his usual selfish manipulative...
- I caved after six days of no contact with EX. I was so embarressed that I gave him another chance, I didn't even tell my friends. I feel like a pathetic loser. The physical part is a huge draw that I'm struggling to giving up. I knew that his...