teddybear973
Status: Feeling overwhelmed. Lots of decissions to make
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- Last night, we went to counceling. I have told him I want a divorce and he does not know it, but I have an attorney and the papers are ready to be filed. Our councelor is our pastor and he did an intense session last night where we sat across...
- I am feeling like crap today because last night my dh decided we were having sex. He was in a very bad mood all day and kept trying to get in an argument with me and yet when it was time for bed, he wanted what he wanted. I feel very used. I am...
- I went to see an attorney and hired him. He got the draft of the complaint done within a day or two and now I am scared to have him file it. Why? I know that this is what I want and what will be best for myself and my boys but I just can't seem...
- I went to see an attorney and he is working on the draft of the complaint but I still have not told dh. I am scared to tell him because I am afraid of his reaction. One of my friends thinks that he is either going to beat the crap out of me or...
- I just went to see an attorney today and I am very overwhelmed. I have not told my dh about my seeking a divorce and am scared of his reaction when I do tell him. He has a very bad temper. I am not looking forward to having to tell our children...
- I went to see my pastor last week and after trying everything I can think of, he told me that I should get divorce papers and fill them out and then tell him that if he is not going to make changes, then I will have to file them. I have told him...
- I am tired of feeling like I don't matter. I go through times when I think that I am going to fight for myself and leave my abusive marriage and stand up for myself and then it seems like everyone around me just wants to use me for what I can do...
- I went to church today and while singing, I fell apart. I started crying and did not want to go home. The tension in my house has been extremely high lately. DH has been yelling at my boys and glaring at me. I get the feeling that he feels that...
- I am extremely frustrated today. I have been gone on vacation for over a week and was feeling in the mood for sex last night. Things got started and then husbands erection disappeared. This has been happening more and more and it is frustrating...
- I have been married for 15 years and about a year ago, I went to the computer to check email and found that my dh had left his private email account open and there were emails from a man that he had responded to from craigslist. I fell apart! I...
- I am very nervous because I am leaving to go on vacation with my Mom and I am leaving my two boys home with their Dad. Dh has been getting very angry with our 13 year old boy and I am afraid that if there is a confrontation while I am gone, that...
- I have just read the book " Why Does He Do That" and I am ready to just give up. It sometimes seems too difficult to fight to break free. Right now I feel like a piece of crap that does not deserve to be happy, loved, or treated with respect. My...
- I have read a lot of self help books and they all say that you are supposed to make yourself happy and that no one else can do it for you. I can't seem to get this concept through my thick head. I am in a very unhealthy marriage and have a friend...
- I thought that I was doing ok and managing my depression until today. I am in a bad marriage and feeling very unloved at the moment. I feel this desperate need to feel loved. I just feel like I am spiralling out of control right now. I want to...
- I am left wondering what is wrong with me this morning. I suffer from depression and I have been doing great with it lately until last night. There has been a lot of things in my marriage that have brought me to the point that I almost cringe when...