Chrissy614
Status: There are good days and there are bad days .... still.
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As I sit here at 2:30 in the morning I am cherishing the moments I had with both my kids today. (Thank you Jackie for making me look at my blessings in the "here and now"). Why am I up at 2:30 -...
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Timeline set - 60 days to come to an agreement before we see a judge. My lawyer doesn't think it will go that far - she believes we'll settle at mediation. So within 60 days it should be final. ...
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My stbx stopped by tonight to pick up his recipe and spices for this Venison sausage that he and his buddies make every year. I had it all waiting and ready for him at the door. Didn't plan on...
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One year ago today my husband decided to quit on me, our marriage and our family. The day started out cold and snowy. We got into a silly argument about leaving the dog outside. She's a...
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I'm in a funk this week. Feeling down - not my normal self. Well, what's normal anymore? I think I've caught my stbx in another lie but I'm not positive. I know it shouldn't matter anymore,...
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I didn't even want to write in my journal about this because I feel all I've done lately is sit on the financial pity-pot, but I got a text from my stbx today that says he can't make the rent payment...
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I'm ready to start looking ahead in my life. I'm hoping if I set some realistic goals for the New Year, I'll actually make the time to accomplish them. These are in no particular order..... 1. ...
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DS Friends - this is just a rambling journal on my part. Not thoughtful or inspirational, just "crying over spilled milk" :) I can't sleep again. 3am and I'm awake - again. Night...
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Wow, 7 months ago today my husband moved out. Time and space he said. Bullshit I say. I have been through so much these past 10 months - right after he told me he didn't love me anymore. ...
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I asked my stbx to meet me next Friday, the 28th, to discuss our divorce. I want to have him get a recommendation from his lawyer for a mediator and I'm going to get one from mine. I'm going to...
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I felt compelled to write a final letter to my husband. I wanted to give this to him the day he left my house so cold and unemotional. The day I finally knew it was over for me. I may have...
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My complaint was answered and now we have a pre-trial date set for Jan. 8, 2009. I was hoping to have more done by then. I'm going to see if he'll go straight to mediation and see what they have...
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I have such an urge to text my stbx back about his "biggest buck ever" but I've got to learn to let go. I've got to be stronger about the "no contact" rule. I've been allowing him to still be...
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I've had several conversations with my stbx today and he talks to me like I'm his friend. First I called him to find out about buying some bulk items from Sam's Club because of his layoff. We...
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Signed my divorce papers today - answered his divorce complaint with a counter-complaint. I did this for my own closure.
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