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- I am just coming through a divorce that should be final any day. Well I started seeing someone that I reconnected with from over 40 yrs ago. We have talked for hours nonstop for almost two months about our lives and our past. I really like this...
- My attorney felt we could settle through mediation Saturday. Well after 4 1/2 hrs and paying the mediator, no luck. She says 98% of cases are settled before court. I guess I'm in that 2%. Now, all of a sudden, he tells me that he still loved me,...
- So my stbx asked for a divorce in March. My life was instantly turned upside down. I have come to hate and despise this man sooo much. No love lost like I feel I should...I can't stand him. The thought of ever reconciling with him turns my...
- So... for months I have told myself that I need to try to move on. To start trying to put myself out there. I have had sooo much going on...new job, new move out of state, trying to find a place to live. For the longest, EVERYTHING was up in the...
- For the past three months I have been dealing with his divorce filing, finances, stress of moving, finding a job, finding a school for my son, and finding a place to live. Finally I feel that I am getting my life in order...that is until now he is...
- Okay...yesterday was my 9 yr anniversary. I have been dreading seeing this day come for several weeks. Funny thing, I just realized it! I was so tied up with other stuff going on that I forgot about it completely! I am so shocked and surprised at...
- For the most part I have finally reached being able to listen to music without thinking of him. I am okay with being myself most of the time.What hurts most for me is looking around my home and knowing soon I will be moving and will never see it...
- I regret keeping more journal entries on DS. From reading the few that I posted, I can see how sooo far I have come in the last few months. Very therapeutic!
- What's wrong me? I know it's supposed to get easier by the day. It has been months now, but I find myself getting more and more pissed off by the day. This anger just keeps building. It doesn't help that we are in a roommate situation. When this...
- Long story short. Stbx asked for a divorce in March after being separated ( in a roommate situation ) for months.While he was gone all weekend, I packed a lot of my personal stuff since I'm moving in a month. He comes in this afternoon and asked me...
- My ex and I have been separated since before Xmas. On March 16th he made the final decision that he wanted a divorce. He said he would rather be by himself. I did all but beg for him to try counseling for the sake of my son. He refused to. Well a...
- After months of being separated and in a roommate situation with very minimal conversations except in regards to divorce, he keeps texting me about random insignificant stuff. Yesterday was his bday with no acknowledgement from me, so I think he is...
- I have lived with threats of divorce for the last nine years. He said it for good back in December and took off his ring. We have been separated since before Xmas. Now he appears to be stalling to file. There's no question that we are getting a...
- Holidays are birthdays have always been important to my stbx. Well, his b'day is next week. I have been determined not to say one thing to him to even acknowledge it. Yes, I am angry and pissed off....he was the one that wanted the...
- I'm facing losing my two little dogs now. I don't know what to do. Do I fight over them? Split them up? If I leave them, I will never see them again. It's tearing me apart, so I'm trying not to think about it until I'm forced to. Animals just...