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- So I am a long time lurker so I do know most of the players, or playas as you might consider yourself and I finally have something to post. I have been divorced after a twenty year marriage for around four years now and in that time I have had...
- I was in Italy on a trip with my children and woke up with numbness in one hand and two fingers on the other. I came home, went to see the doctor, was referred to a neurologist and had two MRI's (spine and brain) and a spinal tap. I was diagnosed...
- I was divorced last February after my wife started cheating a year and a half before. It was clearly the formative experience of my adult life, a true wakening place and opportunity to learn. Nothing else matches the intensity of this experience,...
- I understand that mistakes are a human thing. I understand that I made mistakes in my marriage and in choosing a partner who didn't have the capacity for honesty and faithfulness. My concern now is seeing that I don't repeat those mistakes. I...
- Now I know that most of you males are young bucks that don't need any of these medicines but as a 50 year old with a young girlfriend I have taken the plunge and gotten a perscription for Viagra and find it to be incredibly helpful in feeling...
- I am maybe two weeks to a month away from my divorce after a 20 year marriage. I am not emotionally attached to her anymore (she left a year and a half ago). I am a 50 year old man. At my job a young woman found me attractive and made moves on...
- He was recovering from his divorce and although he was healing he wasn\'t all the way there yet. He had been apart from his wife for a year and a half and was waiting for the divorce that would come the next month. He was lonely and wanted a new...
- The house closed escrow last week. The new owners are letting me have two months free rent here. That is great but getting a house that we had lived in for eleven years empty seems like a huge job. My new place will be smaller and I will have to...
- Why is divorce so expensive?Because it is worth it! We can persevere and get through it. Hang in there.
- Here's the story. I am two months away from divorce. My wife left me and the kids a year ago September. I took it very hard but find myself healing. That is, she doesn't own my heart anymore. She is on her second boyfriend. I had a brief thing...
- We see amazing achievements by people here on these boards. A mother of small children left by her husband for another woman, a divorce following 20 years of marriage now crumbled because of infidelity by one party, overall we are amazing people. ...
- My wife moved out six months ago. I feel so much better now than I did then. I was truly caught in so much sadness and pain and today I feel healthy and functional. The man my wife left me for is in prison and she is trying to get back into the...
- I know that we are hurt. I know that we have ourselves to take care of in all ways. As we start to heal a bit, the libido kicks in again. I miss touching. I miss physical intimacy. I am not ready for a relationship and I have never been able to...
- Ok, here is the skinny. I don't like chain letters. I don't even like gretting cards with messages written on them. I would prefer to write my own messages, poems, ideas. So I get all these chain letters that tell me not to break them, or send...
- We know about the pain. We know about the anger. We know about the lonliness and sadness. I want to hear about the benefits because I am seeing a lot of them in my life. This is for me and for those that are stuck in the pain but sure want to...