The house closed escrow last week. The new owners are letting me have two months free rent here. That is great but getting a house that we had lived in for eleven years empty seems like a huge job. My new place will be smaller and I will have to go through splitting things with my stbx. The kids have been here with me for the last month (home from college) but they will be leaving soon. I don't feel emotional about this. I don't want to live in this house. I don't want to pay the upkeep on this house but getting all the work done bugs me big time. I want to take the stuff I want and leave the rest for my ex-wife to deal with. It would serve her right, but I won't do that. If she had only agreed to sell the house a year ago when we first separated we would have made a lot more money, but money is just that. I have a good job and I have my kids and my health and what more do I really need? Oh, ya, a final divorce!
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