The house closed escrow last week. The new owners are letting me have two months free rent here. That is great but getting a house that we had lived in for eleven years empty seems like a huge job. My new place will be smaller and I will have to go through splitting things with my stbx. The kids have been here with me for the last month (home from college) but they will be leaving soon. I don't feel emotional about this. I don't want to live in this house. I don't want to pay the upkeep on this house but getting all the work done bugs me big time. I want to take the stuff I want and leave the rest for my ex-wife to deal with. It would serve her right, but I won't do that. If she had only agreed to sell the house a year ago when we first separated we would have made a lot more money, but money is just that. I have a good job and I have my kids and my health and what more do I really need? Oh, ya, a final divorce!
Posts You May Be Interested In
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...