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- I've been married for 17 yrs. He is an addict, lazy, self centered and everything else addicts tend to be. He never held a decent job and I always had to work. His stance was always that I should, women didn't need to stay home. Now, all of a...
- I look in the mirror and see a desperate fool. Desperate to keep a man, that is an addict, and a narcissist and a man that just doesn't want me in his life or he could care less one way or another. I go to a level where I hate myself more and...
- This past weekend I had pain in my hips so bad that I could barley bend. There's also an odd pain in my ankle. Ever since this started I've gotten strange pains, they are always on the same side of my body my shunt is on, but usually the pain is...
- I have my marriage cert in a box. We are still married and separated for almost 2 years now. That marriage certificate didn't keep him faithful, it didn't help to have him honor or respect for me, it didn't help me honor or respect him (once he...
- I have been so lucky with this "disease" (is that what this is?)My 1st lumbar shunt lasted 10 years. Headaches weren't horrible on a daily basis, although I did have some discomfort doing things like riding a roller coaster, laughing uncontrolably...
- My H is a classic addict...he's been diagnosed as bipolar and given medicine...so in his mind, now, he's not a sex addict..he's bipolar. You know the truth is..this guy is a mess, and I'm done. I can't help him and frankly I don't want too.. I still...
- My H is a classic addict...he's been diagnosed as bipolar and given medicine...so in his mind, now, he's not a sex addict..he's bipolar. You know the truth is..this guy is a mess, and I'm done. I can't help him and frankly I don't want too.. I still...
- Hi All, I'm curious to know if anyone else has had some of the same problems I've had with the lumbar shunt. 1st of all I'm now 38 and on my 2nd shunt. The 1st one got placed with I was 26 and the 2nd one when I was 36. So I feel like that's not...
- I have a dilemma!My daughter's father and I are separated.He isn't working and has no income. (this is a whole different topic)Sometimes when she wants to see him, I have to pay for everything and do all the driving, etc. (we are supposed to be...
- I think I'm finally ready to get the paperwork started and make this separation (we are currently separated and I now want to be divorced) legal and final! (took me a LONG time to get here)I've been researching lawyers and researching the process...
- I've taken some steps to stand my ground the last few weeks and it's soooo hard!!I have cut off all contact that doesn't have to do with our daughter and his car had broken down and where I would usually try to help fix it and make sure he gets to...
- I'm feeling sooo stressed. My counselor and I talked about me changing my habits when it comes to my husband...so there is no more talk unless it's regarding my daughter, he's not allowed in my house and he can only be there while he is watching...
- I saw my counselor last night and he suggested I stop all relationships with men for a while. I am seperated, but have a friend that I text often and have been for a long time. He thinks that I need to focus on me and where I'm going with my...
- Let me just give you a quick background: All my relationships have been with addicts!Drugs/Alcohol/SexI kicked my husband out and that took me 13 yrs to do (the one before him had to leave me, he was abusive also). I still haven't filed for...
- I know the end of this relationship is what is best for me. But he's letting it end without any kind of fight. I know this is who he is but it still hurts sooo much. I was told that I have to take care of me and I am . I know that I postponed...