Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I've been married for 17 yrs. He is an addict, lazy, self centered and everything else addicts tend to be.
He never held a decent job and I always had to work. His stance was always that I should, women didn't need to stay home.
Now, all of a sudden, he starts driving a truck (he still can't financially support himself or us) and he's telling all these women they can stay home and he will take care of them. I still work and take care of his daughter and he's very wishy washy on what kind of financial support he will provide us (I'm desperately trying to finish school) once we finally get divorced. I'm so pissed off. I know that the reality is he will NEVER support anyone, and if I can get him out of my house it will be a freakin miracle, but this still annoys me to no end!!
Then he gets all offended because I'm such a bitch to him, well yea I am, he's an ass. He also thinks he deserves respect. HAHAHA...I told him no one respects a man that cheats and lies like he does. He tells me lots of married people do what he does. I said well then why do you insist on lying about it then?! Sorry, more of a rant than anything. Trying to get him out has been hell!!!
He never held a decent job and I always had to work. His stance was always that I should, women didn't need to stay home.
Now, all of a sudden, he starts driving a truck (he still can't financially support himself or us) and he's telling all these women they can stay home and he will take care of them. I still work and take care of his daughter and he's very wishy washy on what kind of financial support he will provide us (I'm desperately trying to finish school) once we finally get divorced. I'm so pissed off. I know that the reality is he will NEVER support anyone, and if I can get him out of my house it will be a freakin miracle, but this still annoys me to no end!!
Then he gets all offended because I'm such a bitch to him, well yea I am, he's an ass. He also thinks he deserves respect. HAHAHA...I told him no one respects a man that cheats and lies like he does. He tells me lots of married people do what he does. I said well then why do you insist on lying about it then?! Sorry, more of a rant than anything. Trying to get him out has been hell!!!
It will take a miracle to get mine out of the house too. I'm praying for that every day though.