Baxjanson
Status: I wish I were as perceptive and accepting of my strengths as I am my flaws.
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- My MIL just posted a link to facebook, directed to my wife. A list of '12 signs you're headed for divorce' Highlighted was an image of a doghouse, with the caption "The cheater blames the other spouse.""Some men and stereotypically this is men ...
- My wife informed me that my last paycheck wasn't very good, so we'd be on tight restrictions for two weeks. She said I had 50 dollars, aside from my bills. Curious, I asked how much she had. She said she had 60 dollars cash in her pocket.I'm...
- I'm feeling there's a lot of good conversation going on here today, and I felt the need to share something that I've been processing.It is a horrible thing that any of us have to endure the cruelty, the dehumanization, the snuffing of self that...
- So once again, sice I've been fighting with my friends, my wife is super supportive, and really there for me.On the plus side, the sermon yesterday was on authority and marriage - a touchy subject, to be sure. She admitted to feeling like God was...
- So chorus line opens at the theatre I have called home for 5 years. I've been involved in some way shape or form in almost 100 productions there. I've now been told that I am not welcome at this production, because J, my old friend, is in it. She...
- Today's been a hell of a roller coaster for me. In the middle of my work day, I crashed emotionally to a 1 - the knowledge that no matter how much work I did, my best friend was going to spend the rest of her life thinking I gave up on her when she...
- Off to marriage councelling, and today I've got my list of things I want and need from a marriage - thought I'd run it past all of you who who might be better versed than I am:I need my concerns to be taken seriously.I need to be heard.I would like...
- Met my wife last night. Everyone I know was busy, and I was ffeling very lonely and isolated, and she asked how things were going, and if I was planning to come over to spend some time with her as we had arranged. I told her, no, that I was...
- Short, but very to the point. Thought I'd share.http://www.psychopathfree.com/content.php?274-It-s-Not-About-YouStay safe and strong, you lovely people, you!
- This weekend was nice in regards to my wife. She didn't object when I said I was taking the kids to see a movie, and I stopped by a store and bought them a game - a pricy one, and she said it was an awesome idea.On our way into session, we argued a...
- So two days ago, right before bed, I got an email. It was the boyfriend (C) of my old friend (J).He complained that I had been posting horrible things about him on my blog, and that he was making a request that I stop.I responded and thanked him...
- Well, tomorrow I start the ball rolling on divorce. I'm making that my default course of action until I am convinced otherwise. My wife contacted my friend. My friend had said, in no uncertain terms, that any attempts by me to contact her in any...
- http://xkcd.com/1116/Let it sit for a bit. That's exactly what conversation with my wife is like.And don't forget - if you're confused, it's your fault entirely. Complaining is only a sign of you trying to hurt their feelings. /sarcBah!
- Does anyone else find themselves hyperaware at times? Not just of the people around them, but the room itself, the details? I find myself being able to remember clearly tiny little details about what sat where around the table, but also how people...
- I don't even know what I feel right now. I feel emotionally dead and drained. Empty.I just feel tired. Tired of standing strong. Tired of enduring. I haven't gotten the apology she said she owed me. She had a conversation with the folks at the...