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- More than 2 years of no contact after a messy divorce proceeding initiated by my ex, out of the blue my he wants to communicate again. I agreed out of curiosity. I got the impression from his email that he regrets the divorce and wants to make...
- After two long years of court proceeding, my marriage was finally dissolved. It was also the first time after two years that I have seen my ex-husband. He avoided me during the entire proceeding. The pronouncement of the divorce was solemn and it...
- I have been single for 11/2 years. It has been a rollercoaster ride since the separation and through the divorce process. All I can say is I have survived. From time to time, sorrow still visits me. There seems to be some residual pain that does not...
- I really would like to send my stbx a christmas card although we have not in contact for 9 months. As some of you may know, my separation is not amicable but I just want to make a nice gesture for the sake of christmas season. Until now, I still...
- I haven't been here for a while. Some of you might remember, that my STBX filed for divorce based on fault on my part. A few months later during the proceeding, I hired a lawyer who helped me disproved the allegiations of my STBX, dismissed his...
- Today I received a letter from the city hall that my husband keeps his registration in my flat where we cohabited until the separation. This doesn't make sense because he is working in another country and I'm the one paying for the rent. Knowing...
- My therapist prescribed me cherry plum bach flower because she thinks that I am holding back and I've been taking it since a week. I believe it's been working in me. Since a few days, I've been imagining my ex. I see him everywhere waving goodbye to...
- Hi guys, I am planning to write my stbx an email. The purpose is to get him into settlement agreement regarding furnitures he bought that I am using. I have not been in contact with him for two months now. I am not sure if the tone of my email is...
- It's been two months since the day my world crumbled from the announcement of divorce and the terms and grounds as well as the no contact rule that ensued. Looking back, I did believe that things were going very badly for me. I was so scared and...
- I believe that I have been rational in dealing with my current divorce. I excluded anger, love, disappointment and sadness when I agreed with the divorce. I think that it is in my best interest to agree with the divorce. As I posted in the past, I...
- I have been thinking if I should contact my stbx regarding the post nuptial agreement copy. He keeps the original copy. I am not sure if it is ok to contact him on this as we are not contacting each other since the divorce has started...
- It's been almost two months since my divorce has started. The dust has finally settled. I am not shocked anymore. I am undergoing a wave of negative emotions but it is better than before. I told my closest friends and family about it. I also told my...
- I consulted with an attorney and explained my case. I wanted to be enlightened why my husband used the hardship attributable to me as a ground for divorce and accused me of being a borderline. My husband has been depressed for long time and had...
- Last friday, I received a letter from the court that my husband wants an extension for the documents he needs to submit in order to start the proceeding. He was the one who filed for a quick divorce and blindsided me. I responded quickly and...
- I have problems in concentrating with my studies. I have a presentation tomorrow and I cannot focus. I am angry, restless, sad and tired. Any advice on how to stay focused on your work during divorce?