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- ..... In thirty years of marriage now I'm all of the above not to mention fearful, heartbroken,miserable, I'm sure we could all add more.
- Like all of us I have so many decisions to make, I've been doing ok but tonight it hit me like a ton of bricks, gosh I have no one to bounce ideas off of. I've been so busy doing things and make decisions and taking care of things that realty it...
- I'm coming up on fourg months. The fog is starting to lift, I'm functioning more hours a day. I've completed most if not all of the things a newly widowed person must do, i.e. Insurances, banking, name changing, etc.I can see a small glimmer of...
- today we would have been married, or should I say we are married 30 years, I've been dreading this day since my husband passed in January. So far not so good, but I know it will get better. Really feeling down this morning.
- the last few days have been decent, getting things done, seeing my support group not crying as often, etc. But guess what, I just don't feel like doing this anymore. Tired of being without Stephen, and upset thinking that maybe I will make it on...
- Even when you are living everyday, coping, doing what needs to get done, maybe even having some good times, seeing friends, etc. Does the loneliness ever go away? When I think of how to live the rest of my life without my dear Stephen, I just...
- today I went to a support group, it is my third attempt at the group thing, first one I went to it was just me, the second one, well there was three of us two of us lost our husbands and the third was in an unhappy marriage,, don't know what she was...
- its been 6 weeks since my darling Stephen passed, I went out tonight with friends, a couple, another widow, two women who were never married, I am friends with the couple and they arranged this dinner for us all. I had a very nice time, however 3/4...
- Hello everyone, let's get out of the grief mode for a minute. I'm home alone tonight, my son went out after work with friends. I'm on the iPad playing solitaire, I just feel like talking to someone. What's everyone up to, let's try to keep it...
- today I went to a financial advisor. I'm selling my home, have a certain amount of money and other investments, not sure how to live the rest of my life (I'm 52 and have ot worked in 27years) well anyway, it was the best thing I did, they dont...
- i have been on this widow road for one month, my Stehen went to the hospital new Years Day and never came home, so I have gotten myself in a horrible routine. I get up around 8:30 lay in bed till about 10:00, then it takes me a few hours to get...
- Does anyone else feel sorry for themselves? I miss my husband so much and I cry then it goes into what am I going to do, why did this happen to me? I can't believe this is how my life turned out? All the I's, Me's I feel embarrassed. My husband...
- Just a question, I think I know the answer to. Do we have to gets use to being alone for ever? I know I can fill my days with lunches, volunteering, a part time job, maybe a dinner or two a week with friends, seeing my kids for a weekend dinner,...
- I want to find a support group but am having a hard time. I am seeing a counselor and that seems to be helpful. I went today to a bereavement workshop, I was the only one that showed up, the organizer and I spent an hour talking and she said to...
- Every day when I wake up before I'm even out of bed I get an overpowering feeling of fear about my finances, I'm told by family and professionals I will be fine but I can't shake this fear. I'm trying to tell myself for today I'm fine and go from...