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- Do you know what it's like to have a characteristic of yourself you don't like? Something you've worked to change but you think others don't appreciate how much you struggle with it?In my case, it's feeling like I'm too rigid. It's not my fault;...
- Obviously, this question is for the non-drug-users out there:Would you date someone who does drugs? Would it matter if they only did it sometimes, as opposed to often?Would you date someone who USED to do drugs but no longer does?I ask, because I...
- When you get into a relationship with a woman, how long is it until you start to really open up and reveal your feelings to her?
- I'd like to know how you would react to this situation:A little while ago, I helped a friend out with a project. This person afterwards said that they (I'll keep this gender-neutral) wanted to treat me to a meal to thank me for the effort I made. I...
- There's a girl I've known for some time and who is interested in developing a romantic relationship with me. However, the more we talk and see each other, the more I know she's not right for me. We just don't have the right chemistry.What's the most...
- Has anyone ever had the experience of being at a party and looking across the room to find a woman (or man) looking in your eyes? Someone you're attracted to?And suddenly, you're flooded with anxiety? As if, in gazing at your eyes, they can see into...
- The person I'm currently seeing had been great at the beginning. They (I'll keep this gender-neutral) were thoughtful, perceptive, empathetic, and patient. However, while they're great for listening... for "talk therapy," or whatever the appropriate...
- I wonder if anyone else out there experiences this: You have so many thoughts and feelings and hopes and dreams, but you feel like you share only a small portion of all this. That there's so much you experience that others don't fully appreciate.If...
- I can't believe I'm even posting this. But the world seems kind of topsy-turvey to me these days, so I need to know that at least some people out there understand and relate to what I'm going through.I feel a strong need for physical intimacy these...
- I very recently had a difficult situation with a woman. We planned a date for an afternoon. She said she had something to do until 2 p.m., so I assumed we could meet by 2:30. However, I had also planned to go to a party with a friend of mine that...
- When I meet a girl I think is cute, I might start to get interested in her. But if, over the course of talking to her, I learn that she's already had a long-term, committed relationship, I become really disappointed.This is because I've never had a...
- When I see a girl who I think is attractive, I suddenly feel a jolt of nervousness. My heart might start beating faster.And thoughts run through my head: She'd never give you the time of day; you're not good-looking enough; ...and other...
- I met a girl who came to have more interest in me than I had in her. I told her a little while ago that I needed distance and that for the foreseeable future, if she got in touch with me, I would respond to her, but I'd need time to.However, I...
- Let's say you have the chance to get together with someone you're attracted to. She's already told you she's really attracted back to you.Let's say that she's not in a relationship with someone else. And you know she wants to be physical with...
- I'm wondering if there's anyone out there for whom their first kiss, or their first relationship, wasn't all they had expected. That they had high hopes, they had imagined things a certain way... having a certain kind of feeling... and then their...