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SearchingAndWaiting
SearchingAndWaiting
I'm wondering if there's anyone out there for whom their first kiss, or their first relationship, wasn't all they had expected. That they had high hopes, they had imagined things a certain way... having a certain kind of feeling... and then their experience fell short of that.

My first kiss was disappointing. There wasn't chemistry for me.
And same for the next two. :-(

I'm still waiting for the kind of amazing relationship I dream of.

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Tangentially: Is there anyone who found an amazing relationship only later in life?
Who felt disappointed before and then found something great... perhaps after losing hope?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry I can't help you, as I've never even been kissed, but I hope you get the perfect kiss sometime. I'm sure you will.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I feel the same my first kiss was disappointing and a hoax. But I hope some day down the line when I do kiss someone the right person that its magical everything we kiss. As for first relationship I have had some relationships also disappointing and then werent serious just mess so whenever I decided to get in relationship and settle it will have to be worth my time and I will call it my first serious committed loving relationship! But I have hope.
I hope and wish you the best on the pursuit of experiencing great kisses and a wonder relationship one day!
Much hugs and luck
christa
deleted_user
deleted_user
I feel the same my first kiss was disappointing and a hoax. But I hope some day down the line when I do kiss someone the right person that its magical everything we kiss. As for first relationship I have had some relationships also disappointing and then werent serious just mess so whenever I decided to get in relationship and settle it will have to be worth my time and I will call it my first serious committed loving relationship! But I have hope.
I hope and wish you the best on the pursuit of experiencing great kisses and a wonder relationship one day!
Much hugs and luck
christa
deleted_user
deleted_user
You will probably go through this whole, "no chemistry" thing for awhile. I mean you probably wont see fire works when you kiss someone, but you will know it feels right. Whatever you do, dont settle because you are lonely, or feel like you need someone. When the right person comes along it will be when you least expect it, and you will absolutely know they are the right one for you. Best of luck.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You will probably go through this whole, "no chemistry" thing for awhile. I mean you probably wont see fire works when you kiss someone, but you will know it feels right. Whatever you do, dont settle because you are lonely, or feel like you need someone. When the right person comes along it will be when you least expect it, and you will absolutely know they are the right one for you. Best of luck.
deleted_user
deleted_user
my first kiss was on a bus back from a swim meet... nothing romantic... up until last night all my other kisses were not "fireworks"

but i met this amazing guy who really respects me and yeah..

there is always a guy other there that will treat you the way you should be treated, and that to me is esential for a great relationship.

but there are hard to find them, there rare but priceless
deleted_user
deleted_user
My first kiss was majorly disappointing, as many of my friends were. I haven't experienced a good realtionship/kiss either, so I don't have any advice. Just know you're not the only one.
SearchingAndWaiting
SearchingAndWaiting
Thanks, guys.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My first kiss was great,, my first time at having sex was so so it didnt hurt because I played with myself soooooo much before but it wasnt a special relationship. I dont care cuz he was damn cute and had a good dick.