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- I have been on this group in the grief area when I lost my husband to cancer 7 years ago. A couple months ago I was diagnosed with esophogeal cancer that has spread to my liver and kidney. My oncologist is direct and says I have one to two...
- My ES and DIL are working hard on reconciliation and it is going good. Since my husband passed away, they have come closer. But they live in the cities, as does my other son. I have purchased a home in the cities and am selling my lake home that...
- I need prayer and your thoughts. As you know, when my husband was diagnosed with cancer, my estranged son and his wife came back into our lives. My son has been working hard to show me how much he loves me and brings his family to all family...
- This song lifts me up when I am down: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3gLeCiMJqIThe Joy of the Lord by Rend Collective
- I receive periodic emails from something called "Parents of Prodigals". It has been very uplifting, and the prayer today I felt pulled to share with you. I know when I was hurting the worst, I wanted to hurt. That was wrong; that is not God's...
- My ES and his wife and daughter came back into our lives a year ago when my DH was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Our ES was wonderful and it was a blessing for my DH to see them, hug them and show his granddaughter his trains and just play with...
- Our anniversary is 9/10 and this will be the first anniversary without Al. I don't know what to do. Should I try to fill my day with 'stuff' to do? Maybe I just need to sit on the couch and cry. Have any of you dealt with a first anniversary...
- Friends - my dear Al has been gone 5 months now and I find myself crying uncontrollably more and more. The 50mg zoloft doesn't seem to be helping any more. I do pretty good during the day when I have something planned, like coffee or lunch with a...
- This weekend I ran across this quote and felt it really fit where i am in m struggle to find meaning to my life since Al's death. You must give up the life you planned in order to have the life that is waiting for you. Joseph Campbell
- A friend of mine who lost her husband last summer received a dragonfly key chain and this note from the youth group at her church. I read it and re-read it and felt it was worth posting here. We need to think of our loved ones this way. "In the...
- When my husband was diagnosed with cancer, our ES and his family came back into our lives. My husband passed away on Nov. 9, 2014. ES and I continue to work on our relationship, and actually I feel my DIL has matured more than ES has. She told...
- I have written before asking if I should move back to the cities or stay in our newly remodeled lake home. I have decided the loneliness and "quiet" of winter can be depressing. I have been going back and forth - do I stay (love this house Al and...
- My thoughts have been concentrated on the 6 months that my husband was sick, from the first day he was diagnosed with a rare Stage IV kidney cancer, through the kidney removal surgery, through the months that his health declined to his passing.I...
- I lost Al a month ago and the crying is worse. I got up this morning ready to go to church and the tears have been flooding my eyes for an hour, so didn't go to church.The Zolot 50 mg my doctor gave me doesn't seem to help, but maybe it does and I...
- I lost my husband on Nov. 9 of this year to a short six-month battle with a rare kidney cancer. Two years ago we had our lake home completely remodeled with all the touches special to our taste, retired, sold our home in the city, and moved to...