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- I am new to this widow/widower site. My husband passed away Nov. 9 after being diagnosed on May 8 with a rare Stage IV kidney cancer. He had his kidney removed at the U of M by the top kidney surgeon, then saw the top oncologist who conferred with...
- I'm new to this site but have been on the DS estrangement site for years.My DH was diagnosed with cancer in May. It was a very rare kidney cancer but we were hopeful that God would heal him here on earth. On facebook I often spoke of how he was...
- I need advice. When our ES left 7 years ago, we changed our will to "exclude" him entirely, leaving everything to our son who is our rock. We were thinking what if we died in a car accident unexpectedly and didn't want our DIL to reap the benefits...
- Our ES, his wife and 4-yr old daughter came yesterday, stayed for supper and were here about 4 hours. It was a nice visit. When my DH and ES went downstairs it gave me and DIL a chance to visit. I was careful. She wants no reconnection with her...
- I need your advice. Our ES came to the hospital in June when my DH had surgery; then we saw him and his wife and daughter (4) at a restaurant a week later. Didn't hear from him until a phone call a week ago saying he wants to be friends on FB but...
- I receive these about once a month and this one really hit home for me:…God is not ashamed of me, nor is He ashamed of Benjamin.I shouldn’t be either. To be ashamed makes it about me. All about me – what others may say about me when I’m not...
- Josh Coleman's email on estrangement today I thought was worth sharing with you.WHAT SHOULD I DO AFTER I HAVE A FIGHT WITH MY ESTRANGED ADULT CHILD ?Self-doubt and self-torment are predictable fallout emotions from a fight with an abusive or...
- This was on Dr. Coleman's email today explaining narcisstic personality disorder.Common symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder Believing that they're better than others Constant fantasizing about...
- In reading my online devotionals this morning, this verse really touched me and reminded me that God is always near, even when my ES is so distant.It reminded me that all of us here on this site wonder sometimes how much we can bear. It also...
- A friend of mine just returned from the CR Summit at Saddleback Church in California and John Baker shared this and I thought it was very fitting for us as parents of estranged children.He said: That person you are praying for is not going to...
- I get a monthly email message and this one I felt was worth sharing. It really spoke to me. He name is Sally and she write of personal experiences. Prodigal journeys with our children are huge aren't they? I have learned SO much and been...
- Today my DH had surgery to remove his cancerous kidney. The surgery went well. Now we pray that he will be chosen for the clinical trial to target the other small cancer cells.I took a step of faith and texted our ES about his dad's surgery and...
- I get emails from Dr. Joshua Coleman about series he does. He is doing one today and this is what his message is going to be. I thought I would share as these are good points we need to remember as we heal:Learning to find serenity while going...
- In one of my daily inspirational readings today, I read this and thought how sad our young, entitled. estranged children don't realize this: "Your family is your greatest treasure. Guard it with all your might! The thief knows its value and comes...
- I am asking for prayer for my husband who slipped on a wet floor at a gas station today, broke his femur and is in the hospital, scheduled for surgery tomorrow morning 7:30 AM central time. He has diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholestral...