Kellyb711
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- I haven't posted in a while, but I'm always lurking. It's been 6 months now since stbx left and things have been going relatively smooth. I'm pretty stressed about getting the house refinanced as this will determine whether or not I can keep the...
- I've struggled for a few days about whether or not to post this topic, but it's been a thorn in my side and I want to ask the question.The Olympics are great, and the atheletes are phenomenal. Can a sex addict watch the games and enjoy the sports,...
- Came across the movie on TV last night and watched it for the 100th time. I love the premise of seeing the soul of a person instead of the look of them. This used to infuriate me about the stbx (soon to be ex). I never understood how he could...
- In the opinion of an addict, if given the freedom to indulge in the addiction, will it escalate?Since my soon to be ex moved out, for the first time in 22 years he can indulge in the internet without having to worry about being caught, being hounded...
- I took my wedding rings off shortly after dickhead told me he didn't love me anymore and wanted a new life. Of course, after 22 years my hands were feeling naked so I've been on a mission somewhat looking at different rings. I bought an inexpensive...
- I've been lurking around this site for a while now as I'm on a couple of other sites here as well.Almost 4 years ago, my husband of 18 years (at that time) had a 6 month affair. I was devastated. I completely know how everyone in this forum feels on...
- I hope this isn't an awkward topic, but this subject was the final blow that broke up me and the soon to be ex. He was always ogling women/girls of any age. We were out having drinks (3 months ago) and he kept checking out the girls at the table...
- My stbx has two sisters and two brothers all with kids and grandkids. All the kids are more like brothers than cousins because we live within 5 miles from each other have have get togethers almost once a month. The last get together was Easter,...
- Well, as many of you know I was very excited and worried about my first trip to the Keys without stbx. My good friend and I went down Friday with my boys and their friends. Really nasty weather but we were having a great time. Unfortunately, my...
- Leaving for the Keys tomorrow and packing tonight. First time in 17 years haven't been with stbx. I'll be with my boys, their friends, and my good friend, but boy is my heart heavy and it feels like a boulder on my chest.Too bad we have a tropical...
- I was having a very pleasant afternoon yesterday sitting by my pool with my neighbor who is also a good friend. Stbx and my boys went fishing yesterday for father's day and his brother and my nephew also went. Instead of getting the boat (which is...
- I was feeling so good on Saturday. I felt like I accepted the separation and impending divorce, I even felt like I was ready to move out of the house. Had a good talk with hubs about money and the future. My house is surrounded by duplexes and we've...
- I'm just wondering if it's normal for a porn addickt to leave his marriage after 22 years to pursue his addiction. My husband had an affair 3 1/2 years ago and we went to counseling together for a year. During counseling, his addiction came out...
- It feels like a truck is sitting on my chest and a knife in my heart. I'm a breath away from completely falling apart and I have a very difficult closing to deal with in 2 minutes. I don't want to face people, let alone work out their problems....
- I hate this. I hate getting ready for work in this empty house. The silence is deafening. I can't stand seeing one toothbrush in the holder. I don't know why I bother putting on make up anymore.