ryverrat
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- Most of you here know I have my own problems but right now my major concern is my husband. He is bipolar with schizoaffective. He is cutting and having suicidal thoughts. He is trying not to get help. He is just drawing himself inside his head...
- My husband is bipolar and schizoaffective. I have PTSD, anxiety and major depression also. I need help understanding what is the best way to help him. He is back to cutting and having suicidal thoughts but is not trying to get help. He is...
- Yesterday I was suppose to start back to work but first had to go to the surgeon to have the rest of a cyst removed. Pretty simple thing but I got nervous when I realized it was only the male doctor in the room (thing was on my side so had a bit of...
- I am in the process of gathering items for my altar. So far I have a chalice and a lot of ideas. Trying to go with very natural things like wood altar, bone knife, stone bowls, etc. If you have any ideas I would appreciate it
- It's been a while since I posted so, I'll bring people up to date. Husband has been sick both mentally and physically since September. It's been wearing me down. Work has been busy as usual and I am having problems with my back. Everything came...
- I have to travel for work and stay overnight in hotels. Nicer places like the Hampton Inn. But I still have issues with people I don't know entering the room I sleep in. So I usually put the do not disturb sign up so housekeeping does not come...
- I just found out the house I suffered my abuse in as a child is up for sale- my narc mom is in a care home (she was one of the abusers and an enabler). I am so glad it will not be in the family. That I will never again have to enter that house. I...
- I have always had problems with constipation but about 3 months ago I started to have bouts of diarrhea that lasted weeks. Went to my family doctor and also told her about the rectal bleeding that I had on and off for 2 years (PTSD kept me from...
- Not all my family is abusive and dysfunctional. I have an aunt and uncle that have always treated me well. I have reconnected with them and one cousin that lives in the area. Best thing is I am getting to reconnect with my other cousin (their...
- I know this is a hard one to face but by looking a the worst we sometimes can make sense of thing going on now.Personally one of the most narcissistic things my mom did was her method of potty training. She felt she needed to control me and make me...
- Hi, I have been very busy with work for the last few months and had to concentrate on adapting to work after coming back from disability leave. I am going to try to post once a week from here out. Hope everyone is well and thanks for hanging in...
- Hi, I have been very busy with work for the last few months and had to concentrate on adapting to work after coming back from disability leave. I am going to try to post once a week from here out. Hope everyone is well and thanks for hanging in...
- I am burying myself in work again. This is what I have done in the past - work comes before everything for me. Missed a counseling session because of work, bringing things home again, and just not letting it go. Stresses the hell out of me but it...
- Did your parents blame you for things you had absolutely no control over? I am not looking at them blaming you for the abuse but for things that happened to them or the household.One of the most ridiculous for me is my mom blames me for losing some...
- Has anyone found themselves doing thing that remind them of their mother's narc behavior? Does the realization make you stop dead in your tracks? I know I have caught myself and felt quite a good amount of guilt over it. Last thing I want to do is...