Victims of Narcissistic Mothers Community Group
Have you suffered because of a mother who you were never good enough for, that only pointed out your weaknesses, who ignored and neglected you? This group is for people who have suffered at the hands of the mother that should have loved them. Here you can be free to discuss your problems, frustrations and fears. We understand because we have been there too. Our goal is to...
Has anyone found themselves doing thing that remind them of their mother's narc behavior? Does the realization make you stop dead in your tracks?
I know I have caught myself and felt quite a good amount of guilt over it. Last thing I want to do is be like her.
I know I have caught myself and felt quite a good amount of guilt over it. Last thing I want to do is be like her.
I was reactively violent as a child/teen, until I was big enough to sit on her and my older brother had gone off to university.
I drank a LOT, starting at 9 with the odd stolen beer and onto vodka by 12, at 20 I was drunk everyday...I didn't need it or want it, it's just what you do when you're a grown up, right?
Feeling like a victim wherever there's any kind of dispute, even where it's my own indiscretion or behavior to fault. I do that less as I get older.
Right now I'm regretting parenthood again, because I'm fearful I'll slip back in a few years and destroy my own daughter's life.
It's rendered me entirely non-functional today, I'll pick myself up in a day or two.