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- I have been crying all day today because yesterday I had to go to my late partner Tom's house to collect more memories. The brother-in-law was there to record everything that I took and gave me about two hours to collect anything. When I arrived I...
- It has been 13 months for me and I find I am still on that emotional rollercoaster, but not as intense like at the beginning of the loss. These days I find I am more depressed and the reality of losing my partner has almost fully set in. I ask...
- I was wondering if anyone believes that when one is separated from his or her soulmate, that within a brief amount of time (two years or less)that it is only right that the surviving spouse/partner will rejoin his love?I lost my partner in May 2007,...
- Being a widower, I have heard others say in a self-assuring way that, death is a part of life. As if I didn't know that and as if I am supposed to realize some immediate revelation from this armchair philosophical remark. It is so easy to say that...
- This is an interesting question, and maybe some have experienced this, but among the different ways of reassuring us about loss, there is the reflecting on medium messages from loved ones.I find that I often review the messages from my medium...
- In addition to the one last night, I have had many spiritual visits from my late partner who died in May 2007.One such experience, like the one last night, involved sensing him hugging me, being right next to me, almost inside me. This happens when...
- It has been thirteen months since I suddenly lost my partner in May 2007 and although the pain has lessened, my existence is totally numb. I am not happy and can't remember what joy feels like. I feel my life ended that early morning when he died in...
- In my studies of spiritual life after the passing of my partner, I have concluded that God cannot control our free will and the events here, but he does love us here and in the afterlife. In the physical life, we are governed by natural laws, that...
- Although I have been spared being told to move on but every armchair grief councelor, those who have told me or implied got me wordering about what does that term really mean?How can I just "move on" when a large part of me died with my soulmate....
- Death is a robber of loved ones, their love and making memories.Death is loneliness, depression and never ready to say goodbye.Death is dealing with survivors who grow tired of talking about someone who isn't there.Death is nonnegotiable, brutal in...
- I have read that the expired person is akin to someone who has had their lights out, the spirit exiting and leaving just the shell that in the eyes you see the complete loss of the energy that once animated that person. I read this in We Live...
- It has been ten months since I lost my partner, and the grief hasn't gotten much easier. Many times I feel anger, sadness and guilt. The cycle just doesn't seem to end! I am so unhappy. What happened to my life??? Sudden death is the worst tragedy...
- I have been having reoccuring flashbacks of my partner at the funeral home and expired in the hospital bed. How do I discourage myself from experiencing these awful images?I want to remember him in happy times, but the loss is fairly recent and I am...
- Last night, I had a dream of my partner and I in our house and we were just enjoying ourselves as if he was still alive. I asked him, "I thought you were dead?" He said that he never left me. The dream was so real that I was really confused over him...
- After Mr. Right died on me last May, now I am left to pick up the pieces of my shattered life. And also check out the singles market. It makes me very angry, sad and depressed. Yes, I am bitter.I have never been alone in my life (been in two...