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- I was thinking about the many comments I've seen posted over the year and a half or so I have been here. So many, it seems, can relate to being ... or at least feeling like ... a Narc "Magnet". And obviously, as we are learning red flags and to...
- http://lift.awp.nhs.uk/why-choose-us/types-of-help/ccbt/I was looking through clinicaltrials.gov today and came across a study that is using on-line support group and on-line cognitive behavioral therapy as a treatment. Since I know money can be a...
- I ran across this site, based in California. I am fairly certain, however it would be applicable to most states, etc. I really like the reality based suggestions to "avoid family Court" until a criminal case has been built, as many of us would...
- I've been sick the past 3 days. Woke up to find the electric being shut off. I give up. The only thing I can do is watch my life go down in flames, everything I've worked for or achieved, be shredded to bits. I can't just leave, unless I want to...
- http://www.nexuspub.com/articles/1999/sept99/anxiety.htmHow anxiety can lead to peaceA conversation with Robert GerzonBy Ravi DykemaWe may be anxious about our children’s well-being or whether there’s enough gas left in the car to get where...
- I haven't seen this covered too much and am sort of curious as to what anyone knows. I am not "worried" so much as puzzled. I have seen lots of posts regarding "warning the new partner" etc and yet, what if the new partner is just like them, or...
- Hi. I hate all this stuff I'm going through. I feel more like a hostage than ever, but whatever. I got a text from youngest daughter the other day. She's coming home Sunday, she tells me. OK, that is good on one hand, but why then are all my alarms...
- Hi, I usually post in another forum. I have been in therapy now for about 15 years. Now, divorced 2x from the same man. The divorce just became final last month and it was nasty, costing me about $8k I can't afford in legal fees for protection,...
- I got a letter today from my (now) ex-attorney. N wants credit for future mortgage payments as long as I am here (and I don't even WANT to be here!) plus he plans to cut off utilities, saying I need to put them in his name.I settled down, realizing...
- A lot of people here have been very encouraging and people have told me they admire my determination or tenacity. I was sort of thinking about it (especially in light of all the good it doesn't "seem" to have done) but I think one thing that has...
- Met with attorney yesterday. She kept saying I need to let go of anger, blah blah and put it behind me and how there is no stigma in bankruptcy blah blah. Today, I'm driving around wee hours of the morning and thinking and it hits me. I've had to...
- http://lightshouse.org/lights-blog/black-white-thinkers-all-nothing-thinking#axzz2F0CBq1lwThis site has a lot of info about different aspects of the cluster B and toxic types of personalities and families. It looked like it would appeal to junior...
- Apparently, there is nothing much I can do legally about scumbucket stealing me and our children blind for the last 15 years. So I asked my attorney can I say and do whatever as long as it is truthful. Because I do know what Ns hate ... he told me....
- This sounds like an interesting book, and I love the title. I'm still thinking over the examples to see if I can find anything similar in my own life ...Excerpt: Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)Cognitive Dissonance: The Engine of...
- Seeing the world as black and white, in which choices seem clear, or shades of gray can affect people's path in life, from jobs and relationships to which political candidate they vote for, researchers say. People who often have conflicting feelings...