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Status: Andy returns in my LOVE: alive, wild and beautiful. This colors everything I do.
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“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you...
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Hello dear Moms,I'm well. I think about you all, all the time. Seriously. How are you? How is your heart, how are your eyes, how are your feet? Where has your soul been spending most of its time?I'm...
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Know how we don't have a word in our language for the parent who has lost a child, the way there is Widow? The FB page called Momcology made me suddenly think of the words: Mommow and Daddow. Rhymes...
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OH dear, another aching heart... a mom who lost her beautiful daughter to cancer. Seems sooo senseless. I share her brilliant thoughts here: 8 Months After Losing My Child to Cancer: 5 things that...
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Hi Mamas,Here's a good straight-talking piece. I love you all -xox Sarah================Tom Zubawww.tomzuba.comI’m going to come right out and say it.If you are working with...
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Dear Mamas,I have been well. I had a good plan for Andy's 31st birthday on Tuesday July 16th - his third since he died in 2010. I calmly but fiercely defended my day as MINE. I asked myself what I...
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Oh Teri, and everyone, THANK YOU SO MUCH for making yesterday a great Andy Day. Andy's Peace Day, #3. Andy! Andy! Andy! It really was good. I came home from church with pure fierce love and desire -...
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An Apt Description of Grief, from THE JOURNEY by Mindy WilsfordBefore we go through a loss like this, we assume that grief is like falling into a deep hole. We think we will start climbing a ladder...
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Hello mamas. Is taking care of you as hard as taking care of me? :o) I swear. It's the never ending work! To push back at EVERYTHING else, to carve out a little time, to resist the easy treat and...
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I promise I'll be back this weekend to update about moi, but on the run this morning... so for now:From a friend's FB site:The Grieving ParentYou are at this site, because you are in mourning. You...
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On the death of the Beloved___________________________Though we need to weep your loss,You dwell in that safe place in our hearts,... Where no storm or might or pain can reach you.Your love was like...
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There's no 'ok' way to lose a child. The sudden accidents and medical disasters are terrible because there was no warning BUT at least the kid didn't suffer too long, and the long drawn-out cancer...
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Hallelujah for another year, another day, another breath, another chance to live and love again! Knowing that mercy does not make excuses, may we be more compassionate, with ourselves and with...
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Tom's Bloghttp://www.tomzuba.com/blogs/toms-blog/7031988-10-tips-for-living-with-the-holidays-this-year-when-someone-you-love-has-died 10 Tips for Living WITH the Holidays this Yearwhen someone you...
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Hello dear mothers.I am well. Still planning out my healing project: becoming a wellness trainer for people who have endured trauma. I am going to start (operative word: START) to take courses in the...
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