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  Back again

  Posted by: YellowSubmarine

  Last Reply: Harvey131313 11/21/2021

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  So I haven't been here for a while. My partner had decided that he wasn't trans, are things went back to normal. Now, unsurprisingly his trans feelings are back. I'm so tired of this. Things haven't been great lately. I feel like we're basically just roommates these days. He doesn't have a job and is too depressed to try and find one. Won't go to therapy. We live with my parents. We have a 4 year old and a 4 month old so I'm on maternity leave at the moment, plus looking for a new job. Now he's...

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  Posted: 04/08/2019

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  Posted: 09/03/2018

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  Posted: 08/25/2018

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  The yoyo goes back up

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  Last Reply: Cora 08/28/2018

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  My partner has decided again that he's not trans anymore. He says that the major things about being trans don't fit, so he's not going to label himself as that anymore. I won't be surprised if he goes back to being trans in the future. Last time it only lasted a couple of months. This time seems a bit different, he says he's in a better frame of mind, and seeing things more clearly. He's happier, and has quit seeing his therapist for now.I won't be obsessing over the fact that he might still be...

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  Posted: 07/31/2018

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  Posted: 07/06/2018

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  Posted: 07/03/2018

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  Therapy and thoughts

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  Last Reply: YellowSubmarine 07/06/2018

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  My partner's therapist wants him to start experimenting with gender identity more and to stop thinking too much about transition and what it involves. He seems happy with this, and was glad he went even though he didn't feel like it. I've come to the conclusion that it's inevitable that hellh transition some day, so now I'm not worrying too much about it all. I just feel defeated. We'll see how long that lasts. It's all just frustrating because he still can't decide what he really wants. I...

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  Posted: 06/01/2018

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  Posted: 05/24/2018

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  Don't know what's happening

  Posted by: YellowSubmarine

  Last Reply: howcani 05/21/2018

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  I'm getting a bit tired of all this. Now he's gone back to questioning, and he said that he doesn't think of himself as trans at the moment. His therapist even said that she doesn't think he's experiencing dysphoria, and she wants to work on why he's so unhappy with himself. I don't think that's a bad thing, but he was very unhappy with that at the time. In a way I'm glad that transition isn't on the cards right now, but I know it's going to come back, unless he has some big breakthrough during...

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  Posted: 05/12/2018

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