Spouses of Transgender Community Group

Being transgender it's not easy but neither for their spouses. This group is created with the intention of helping and getting to know others that are in. the same situation or to just educate those that are on the other side of the fence and want to know how does it feel or how would it feel to be a spouse of a transgender person. The main objective of this group is to educate, help and support others that have no one to talk to or can not find someone that will understand what they are go

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  • Pen

    Lost in this new world

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    Hi, I've been living with the news that my husband is transgendered for four and a half years now. We had been married for over 22 years when he finally told me.I know he must have suffered so much living with this but he seems to have found himself a great support network who encourage him in everything he's doing, and I'm just left to get on and accept the new relality.I don't want to accept it...
  • Hi everyone. I thank you all for posting your stories- this forum is very helpful! I have only talked to one person about this before, and it is becoming clear to me that I need to start talking more about this just to get my thoughts out of my head and be able to think more clearly! I need more mirrors to make sense of my confusing relationship.My husband of 7 years and I have a 3 year old. I am...
  • Hey everybody. I just found this forum and joined after typing "transgender support group" into google. I'm a 30 yr old cis female, who met the love of my life 13 years ago only to find out he identifies as a female 2 years into the relationship. It's been an ongoing struggle or dressing and not dressing over the years. Within the last month he let me know that "he" wouldn't be coming back...
  • Jbell

    Lesbian married to FTM

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    Hi everyone!This is my first time talking about this to anyone. This is partially because Ive had a hard time coming out to my family and now I feel unsure of my sexuality. Does this make me straight now.... It's feels like I'm coming out all over again. I love my trans husband but I have found it hard to come to terms with it in my mind. I have even noticed that I don't want to have sex because...
  • First, let me say, I am not receiving updates on who responds to what or who posts new stuff. So thank you for the support and words. Most definitely this is an abusive relationship. Not one purposely put on by my spouse, I don't think, but put on by society which he is following to a tee. I've been called controlling, I have been told I am attacking him by giving alternate...
  • I am a female married to a trans-man, and I wanted to share that it can be a really rare and beautiful thing to go through a transition with someone. There seem to be a lot of terribly angry posts on this site, which makes sense, but I need to share my positive experience in the hopes of offering my support for those who need it. For most people who identify as trans, they have felt like they...
  • talimunst3r

    New to group

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    Hello this is my first time posting hoping it will help. I have been with my husband for 10 years and a couple of years ago he started to open up about wanting to wear womens underwear at first to now full entire. I have always been very supportive of him and open but he is struggling to figure out his own identity. I wish he would be more open to talking to someone or joining a group but hes...
  • speppi311

    Getting him out

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    I am trying to come to terms with all of this and figuring out that I need to get a divorce and get him out of the house. I am afraid he won't listen to reason. I have already had him out of the house twice and I don't even know how I managed to get him to go. Every confrontation we have he takes lead and doesn't let me explain myself and then comes full circle to everything...
  • I'm not sure I am going to stay in the frame of mind I am in right now, but I feel okay. (This is a huge rant with anger and non-sequitors. No apologies, just a warning)My husband, despite what we agreed to (first therapy for all the issues that amplify his dysphoria, then see where he's at), started taking hormones three months ago. He found a therapist around the same time, who...
  • About a year ago, my husband came to me to tell me that he wants to be a girl. I must first admit that we have been together for almost 13 years and married for 8 years and we have a 7 year old daughter. This whole time we have been together I have known that he occasionally wears woman's clothing and panties. It got more and more over the years, but he told me girls' clothes are...
  • Here is my complicated queer story as a lesbian who had an abusive husband who came out as transgender. I am confused about how to refer to my ex because of how it reflects on my own sexual and gender identity, as well as how it reflects on the transgender community.I just joined this group in hopes that you all could give your perspective on how to handle this seemingly straightforward - yet...
  • Hi Every one I am new but reading through some of your posts I think I have found a place where I can feel support, let off steam and discuss what is happening in my world of weird.I have been with my partner for 10 years, a tall dark handsome MAN . I knew he had issues- childhood stuff controlling mother, absent father low esteem, he said he never felt like he fitted in, a history of failed...
  • whimper

    Confused and lost....

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    I want to apologize now for how long this might be. Sorry guys.Here goes, about 3 years ago my husband of 6 years told me that he wanted to be a she.. I was at a loss for words. I felt betrayed and really wanted to walk out the door no questions asked, there really was nothing keeping me with him, none of the children are his (I have 4), I was his first and he is still quite young, I just kept...
  • evilbeth

    His dysphoria

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    Hi, I just joined because my heart is breaking tonight. My partner is a trans man and I love him with all my heart. He has been on HRT for a couple of months now. The short version is that the T makes him want sex but the effects it is having on him and his body are making him all too aware that his body will always betray him and can never be what he needs it to be. Sex has been sort of a...
  • I was at my son's Fine Arts Festival and right smack in the front row was the "little girl" who grew up down the street. Only, now she's not a little girl. She's 16 years old and transgendering! What a freakin' mess. Her parents are allowing her at age 16 to dress up like a boy, cut her hair like a boy and according to my son take hormone shots. At 16 kids don't know...