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• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 10/17/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion Husband cheated and got the woman pregnant.

• Cheaters Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 10/17/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion Another Day....

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 10/11/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion How do i break this cycle?.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Like

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  Posted: 10/11/2017

  Wheretonow liked the discussion This group does not *support* infidelity.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 10/11/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion Revenge cheat.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 10/11/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion Revenge cheat.

• Infidelity
  

  Revenge cheat

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Last Reply: whatnow12405 10/17/2017

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  Betrayed spouses, I would love to hear about all the irrational, out of character things you found yourself doing out of sheer rage and hurt after finding out you were betrayed. I am 4 months since my D day and I sometimes don't event recognize myself because I feel so mentally unstable. Even though we are in counseling and I know it's illogical and is completely hypocritical, I find myself wondering if having a mindless fling would help me feel better. If it would level the playing field or...

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 09/29/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion How to help my wife.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 09/27/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion How do I get past this part?.

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 09/27/2017

  Wheretonow joined the group Cheaters Anonymous.

• Cheaters Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 09/27/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion To say or not to say.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 09/26/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion What Now :(.

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  New Friend

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 09/26/2017

  Wheretonow became friends with sjs777.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Posted: 09/26/2017

  Wheretonow commented on the discussion My story.

• Infidelity
  

  Sympathetic for the cheater, angry for myself

  Posted by: Wheretonow

  Last Reply: forwardmotion 09/27/2017

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  I am torn. And that is an understatement...My story is like this:I've been with my high school sweetheart for half of my life and we've been married for the last few years. We were the happy and stable couple everyone admired. But just a few months ago my husband returned from a stag trip and confessed to me that he had been lying to me about drug use that has been going on in one form or another for the entire duration of our relationship. I was absolutely devastated as this meant that he's...