Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after the transgression.

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  • Bewildered

    Devastated

    Just found out my husband has been sex texting my sister in law for 5 months. I'm devastated I  saw a message pop up and thought it was about my son as we were on holiday   I don't normally look at anything on his phone.  I could not believe everything I read and saw.  I confronted him and he swore that it was only texting after a drunken kiss after my sons 21st.  I told him that i wanted...
  • With my husband 21 years, married 7 years, living together 16 years - 4 children together youngest is 4 months old14 years ago I heard a rumour my sister and husband were together, he denied it. I was always close to my sister, my husband always seemed to have a soft spot for her, sometimes I would think maybe something is going on here but i would dismiss it, she has a boyfriend and children but...
  • Literally feel like I'm drowning today!! It hurts more today than any other day I spent my whole lunch break crying because I have to pretend I'm fine during the work day. I'm so scared this won't ever go away I don't wanna live a life like this just need encouragement 
  • BTB

    wife cheated, now what???

    I walked in on my wife and another man at is house. He is a M.D. who is also married andmy wife is a nurse who works at the same hospital/unit. Ilarned it hapend on 2 seperate occasions. once at hi home and once at the hospital in his office. This happened about a month ago and Im so messed up in my head over this. She is ashamed and cries and sobs over what has occurred. I dont know how to feel...
  • Cparker524

    New

    6
    I am new here and I am just putting my feelers out there. Is this a discussion group for peope who are taking a chance at reconciliation and/or have actually made the journey and succeeded? I have read a lot and there seems to be more negative than positive on here. I want to make my marriage survive this horrible thing, I do not want it to define the rest of our lives together. I am realistic...
  • justin

    Emotional cheating

    My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me. It was my fault. We were going through a difficult time in our relationship for various reasons, but were trying to work through our issues. We were struggling to find solutions and I panicked. To fill the void and suppress my fears, I engaged in flirtatious texting with an intern at work, spanning a ten day time frame. Nothing physical, but the texts...
  • Cparker524

    First time......long post

    4
    My Dday was January 2016, I am about 7 months into a healing process. My post is going to be lengthy but I would like to get my whole story out there. I have read and researched a lot out there about affairs and there is some helpful things by others are not. I am not religious and so a lot of the resources out there have focused on that and was not helpful for me. I am posting in search of...
  • hi everyone,so i just need to get it out. My fiancé and I were in a long distance relationship and we got engaged last November. About two weeks ago I found out he had an ongoing physical and emotional relationship with another woman and it lasted about two months. She actually ended it the day before I moved to be with him. Oh yeah! I forgot that little tidbit. I actually left my family,my job,...
  • topdog24

    I'm new and dumb

    4
    I'm new to this whole process. I cheated on my wife on two different occasions. The last one was a few weeks ago. My wife had always accused me of cheaing (for good reason) and now she caught me. I don't know why I actually did it, but I did it. She confronted my and I fessed up to what happened, even the one some years ago. Now she thinks there is a whole list of women that I slept with. I...
  • I've been married for 6 years I didnt know about my husband's fetish until 2 month after our marriage I started finding stuff on his phone but what was more disgusting is that he would name every picture with his girl cousin names they all wear those high heels. I was distraught than he promised me it won't happen again but it's been getting worse I saw on his phone that he went to the extreme...
  • pagliaroj

    Having a rough few weeks

    5
    So I finally thought I was getting over everything that happened 3 years ago but for the past 2 weeks I can't help but be constantly reminded of what was the start of a relationship my wife had with a co-worker on a business trip. I am doing my best to look past it and move on, and she really has done a lot to show she has changed, but it is still bothering me right now. Do I bring this to her...
  • vnut

    My husband

    9
    My husband told me flat out he isn't in love with me anymore right after starting to talk to a co worker now he has been angry and cold and not kind and a jerk that I would have never want to do anything withhe is pushing me out and trying so hard for me to not to love him anymore and after 12years of marriage and 2 Autistic children what am I going to do I feel high without using anything and...
  • sarahb1985

    Sad Update

    Well, I thought he had changed, thought reconciliation might be possible. I am once again a fool. I found out this weekend that my ex was still texting the OW as recent as a month ago. He even had her and her kid to his house on a day he was supposed to be with me but canceled last minute saying he was too tired. When I confronted him he got that fuzzy foggy look they get like they can't exactly...
  • MicGY

    My Story.

    I have been happily married for 11 years with who I thought was the woman of my dreams. We we were in a car accident a couple years ago and after a over a year my wife got better and I got nerve damage that has gotten worse. I started to hate myself and feel like junk ant trash because of this.  Well my wife got a job and within the her first 6 months she meets someone younger and has an affair...
  • Lynn1975

    new here

    Just joined. i have discovered evidence that my husband is hooking up with men and transexuals behind my back. He is also bipolar and an alcoholic and has been emotionally abusive. I can't afford to leave him without ending up homeless or in poverty with my child. very stressed. he says he was only looking at gay porn out of curiosity when he was drunk but he doesnt know i know his password for...