Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after the transgression.

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  • My husband let me know this past weekend that He cheated on me a few weeks ago. He says in the middle of the sex he stopped, left, and cried in his car. I found outwhen i caught him in our room with his gun to his head. I've never imagined we would never be in this situation. He still opens doors for me, brings me little sentimental gifts. I wasin shock when he told me. He says he doesn't even...
  • I've been spiraling downwards this last year and it came to an abrupt halt after a drunken night out with friends. I was feeling more and more neglected by my husband so started partying more. I had a kissing session and admitted to my husband of 15 years as soon as I had the details. (I was blackout drunk, I even peed myself ) we went to therapy almost right away where he admitted he knew this...
  • sarahb1985

    What's The Hook

    just been thinking. What keeps us (the cheated upon) holding on to that keeps us stuck. Being the marriage police is a miserable existence but we hang on even when people who supposedly love us have done horrible things to us, betrayed us, hurt us in ways we would not wish upon our worst enemy. Why? My ex seems sincere but the truth is I will maybe never again feel secure with him. Is that any...
  • VLT118

    Will I ever heal?

    I found out a year and a half ago that my husband of 30 plus years had an affair. We are still together and our relationship is much stronger, but I'm still struggling every day about his infidelity. Does it ever get easier?
  • catskyn

    Dreaming of my ex

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    When my husband was away for over 2 years I always had dreams of him. I have never ever, even when things were good between us had a good dream of him. In every dream I am looking for him. He is lost and I cant find him. I will look for him on facebook in my dream and i will see pics of him vacatioing. I call his mother looking. Through the whole dream i am scrambeling about desperate and...
  • I got married in June 2012. All was well... I had not eyes for anyone else. You couldn't tell me my marriage wasn't perfect. We got pregnant fast! I had a baby in June 2013, 2 weeks after delivering my son my husbands phone was ringing off the hook. I picked it up to bring it to him and it said "Crystal". Well... I knew I didn't know anyone named Crystal so I unlocked his phone to look. Crystal...
  • I am very happy to have found this group. I'm in the midst of filing for a divorce, but find I sorely need the help and encouragement for those who also been forced to divorce. I'd like to share my story to give you context, and hopefully get some feedback on the best way forward for me. I apologize for the length, but feel it's the only way to paint the picture correctly.To begin with I am going...
  • My husband and met in the militry back in 2000.. since then weve been together through 2 deployments, gotten married, had a child, bought our dream home.. its been a blissful 16 years. He recently got deployed..May of 2016..and ive been the doting, supportive wife and found out i was pregnant the week before he left. It was the greatest news.. we had been trying for almost 8 years for our second...
  • I've been with my wife for almost 5 years, married for almost 2. I'm 35 and she's 30. I recently found out about 2 months ago that she had an affair. I caught her lying to me about it through Facebook. She lied about other exes she had in her phone at the time too. She said she wasn't happy with me sexually, and needed me to pay more attention to her. She slept with an old H.S. friend and they...
  • Well I am new here and I am embarrassed to talk to my friends and Family about my marriage and it's problems because I have tried so hard to make my husband sound so great and so amazing for years that now I feel like the jokes on me.. First I will begin with some history.. We have been together for 15 years and married for 13 years.. At first things where amazing..I noticed right off the bat he...
  • I have been married for 22 years and found out that my husband is cheating. I am an emotional wreck. I dont know how to get through this. We talked and i was going to try and see if i could let him stay. I found out a day ago he was still seeing her. He now hoing to be moving out because i cant bear to see him because i cant stop thinking about him and someone else. This is by far the hardest...
  • After 46 years of marriage, I married the week I turned 18 and he’s the only man I’ve ever been with. I have come to find out that over the last 7 years my husband has had numerous affairs, mostly with much younger women that he worked with in an independent management type of situation in the music business. So when I heard him talking to them I was always told it was work, we work...
  • when does it get better?sometimes it feels like the pain only growstoday was a very hard dayit hurts when I am brutally reminded there is no justice and no apologies
  • Kuranui

    My world went dark

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    My wife of 21 years 5 children has moved out of home 5 days ago. She cites all the problems of marriage being the reasons all my fault of course. A hurting point for me was seeing all the signs of cheating and i did not act. The lies never stopped even after she left. my children have hardened their hearts and this hurts deeply. im a practicing priest i must forgive her i must leave this to...
  • sarahb1985

    Private Eyes

    Just curious, anyone ever hire a PI to put their doubts to rest one way or the other?