Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after the transgression.

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  • I've been with my wife for almost 5 years, married for almost 2. I'm 35 and she's 30. I recently found out about 2 months ago that she had an affair. I caught her lying to me about it through Facebook. She lied about other exes she had in her phone at the time too. She said she wasn't happy with me sexually, and needed me to pay more attention to her. She slept with an old H.S. friend and they...
  • My wife and I have been married for 14 years and together for 16 years. This is my second marriage. This is my current wife's 1st marriage.Anyway, long story short. We started watching porn years ago because our sex life had become a little dull. I thought if we watched porn it might get her more interested in sex again (we had a very active sex life before the kids) and that it would make...
  • DawnRanae

    Good Morning.

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    Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself.   -  Walter AndersonI am trying to soak this in.... Trying.Just seems that when your hopes get shot down so many times its...
  • gettingitstraight

    So tit for tat

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    I try to keep an open line of communication open with my ex for the sake of my kids brief background for I haven't posted on here in a while my ex cheated on me she had several emotional affairs with guys and one physical. After I caught her in lies and confronted she confessed too everything the night before she had surgery I still went with her to the hospital while I sat there she...
  • My name is James. I found out a few weeks ago (for sure) that my girlfriend of seven years had been cheating on me for between two and three years. She claims it ended a year ago (he ended it). I initially strongly suspected (to the point of saying I knew but was in denial about it getting physical) something was going on two months into their affair. She promised to break all contact with...
  • DawnRanae

    Angry lately

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    Sometimes I feel that I can't deal with all the task of making a relationship work after a affair...Yet I'm so tired of starting over. Why can't I move past this? Constant worry of his faithfulness. It has brought a monster in me that I didn't know I could be. I have such a negative outlook on the possibility of a relationship that the couple is actually faithful to eachother and happy. So angry...
  • So I could use some advice. While trying to figure out how I feel and what I want I have a new problem. I told my supposed best friends that I'm thinking of reconciling with my ex, at the least spending some time together to see how I feel. So my bff tells me that her and her husband cOuld never be around my ex again and would probably kick his butt if they did? What do I say to that? The irony...
  • My husband had an affair with a co worker. It was a mistake. We saw a counselor whom guided us through the recovery process today we are committed to each other it has taken a long time to feel the way we do about each other now. He did his homework, became transparent, did what he needed to do to regain my trust. I do trust him again. But triggers and reminders of our past still pop up. As...
  • isitjustme21

    4 years post Dday

    I used to rely on all of you on a daily basis just a few years ago. Thank you all. My H and I have recouped from his A. I have forgiven him but have not forgotten. I dont understand why I still question our marriage. I feel his A has changed me. I went to Individual and couples counseling which was tough but was such a positive experience. I feel as though my expectations for love and marriage...
  • Leebee

    I'm crushed!

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    I have to say that I never saw this coming. I met him one night and I could see kindness in his eyes. That night we did not go home together even tough he wanted to. The next day he called me and our relationship took off from there. I fell in love HARD like no other love. He is 15 years older than me and has two adult children to his ex. Which he did tell me that he cheated on her but the...
  • StormPetrel

    Caution!

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    I know some of us have been going over to Cheaters Anonymous for different reasons. For me it's been to add perspective to some of the posts and to, hopefully, getclarity. Some of the posters are coming to terms with the pain and the damage they have caused and are experiencing personal growth yet others . . . well, I'll justsay they are very damaged people. If you are still feeling the...
  • Leebee

    I'm crushed!

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    I have to say that I never saw this coming. I met him one night and I could see kindness in his eyes. That night we did not go home together even tough he wanted to. The next day he called me and our relationship took off from there. I fell in love HARD like no other love. He is 15 years older than me and has two adult children to his ex. Which he did tell me that he cheated on her but the...
  • Leebee

    I'm crushed!

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    I have to say that I never saw this coming. I met him one night and I could see kindness in his eyes. That night we did not go home together even tough he wanted to. The next day he called me and our relationship took off from there. I fell in love HARD like no other love. He is 15 years older than me and has two adult children to his ex. Which he did tell me that he cheated on her but the...
  • Leebee

    I'm crushed!

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    I have to say that I never saw this coming. I met him one night and I could see kindness in his eyes. That night we did not go home together even tough he wanted to. The next day he called me and our relationship took off from there. I fell in love HARD like no other love. He is 15 years older than me and has two adult children to his ex. Which he did tell me that he cheated on her but the...
  • Leebee

    I'm crushed!

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    I have to say that I never saw this coming. I met him one night and I could see kindness in his eyes. That night we did not go home together even tough he wanted to. The next day he called me and our relationship took off from there. I fell in love HARD like no other love. He is 15 years older than me and has two adult children to his ex. Which he did tell me that he cheated on her but the...