Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after the transgression.

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  • mariposamoreno

    porn addiction?

    Hello everyone. I had been dating someone for almost 5 months, who had been a friend for many years. He and I have officially broke up as of a few days ago, and I think I just need to vent to help me move on. I am kinky as they come, but I am totally against strip clubs and porn in my relationships, or wandering eyes, and my ex swore up and fucking down a blue streak that he was fine with that...
  • deleted_user

    Secret email account

    Does anyone know how to find out if someone has another email account? I\'m pretty sure there has to be but he only accesses it from his cell phone and that cell phone NEVER EVER leaves his possession.Thanks for any advice I can get.
  • Radnelac

    I cheated

    Hi im New to this site and I was the one who cheated. Ultimately I came so focused on what I wasn't getting and forgot about all of the other things she did for me...these things were all just as important. We met as teenagers and fell in love... It was a two week summer romance and kept in contact for the first year...and periodically over the years. We have been only together for 6 years now....
  • betrayedtodeath

    New here, unfortunately not new to A

    Had a revelation yesterday that I have been struggling with tainted memories and was relieved to find it is an actual "thing", which lead me to this group. My real DD was Memorial Day weekend 2016. I say real, because it was the day I found concrete, undeniable, irrefutable proof of my CS's behavior. Of course he lied (again) when confronted, but this time after I showed him the proof and how...
  • ntm

    Confused and numb

    I am numb and broken. I am a young woman who has been married for 13 years and I believe no I know , that for most of the time he has always had another person on the side . I just found out again about him being unfaithful again. He never admits to the affairs and I don't know why I have stayed. I cant  cry anymore. And last time I told him if he did it again that would be it. Well here I am...
  • 3xsafool

    Twice Bitten Once Stung.....Stay or Go.....

    My story is long...14 years long.  We had been married 26 years when the actual "sting" happened.  The "bites" happened 12 years into the marriage and again at 22 years.  The "bites"  I am referring to are long conversations with another woman (always the same married woman)....for several months my husband called this woman on his way to work...talking 15-20 mins (I had proof)....I found out...
  • moonlightpath

    i'm the one who cheated

    Hello. I've been with my husband since 2009. We got married last 2014. This happened last year, 2016 at the month of October. At that time we were under financial crisis, lack of sexual intercourse and communication. I know what I did was very very wrong in all aspects. I had sex with the other guy. And I know, I am very stupid for doing that. My husband forgave me, because he does not want a...
  • jabber80

    i cheated

    hello I'm new to the group... i have been with a guy for 6 years. but 3 years ago i cheated on him. at the time i felt neglected and inadequate because according to him nothing i did was right or good enough.  it started to show and a guy at work came along and started to make me feel better emotionally which led to a one time thing.  i felt crappy and told the guy i was seeing and naturally he...
  • n.e.t77

    Trying to heal

    I'm am trying to heal without further hurting our relationship by talking about things over and over. I was cheated on last year by my boyfriend of 4 years. Long story short I was good at finding out where when and who. I decided to give him a chance again and we are now getting married I June. However I am struggling with getting in the mood for sex. I picture them and my mind races and I have...
  • 3timesover

    Husband cheated on me again with the same girl.

    My husband of 8 months has cheated on me with the same girl that he cheated on me twice within our relationship before the marrigae. He claims that he doesn't have any feelings for her but I'm not sure that is the case.  He says that he wants me and wants our marriage to work but I am not sure what I chould do.  I love him and he is a great father to our daughter but the pain that I am...
  • ripped_my_heartout


    the more time goes by the more I find out about her. For me I just don't understand her affairs. Why did she and why does she continue to cheat? It's not love it's just the sex.  She has been with so many men now im not counting anymore. My son caught her with a man she brought home from the bar. There is no pattern to the men she is sleeping with other then they are men. Some are fit, some a...
  • CRSH79

    I don't know what to do

    Last friday my husband was running late for work, forgot his phone at home.  I went through it an found he was messaging other women on fb asking for nude pictures.  He admitted to me that he has only been faithful for one year of our relationship.  We have went through this before and he promised me he wouldn't do this again.  I'm torn, numb, feeling like I lost myself.   I dont understand...
  • Nathan5068

    Need Someone Who's Been Through Similar Events

    Hey, I'm new to this website, so hopefully I'm doing this right.  My name is Nathan, I'm 33 years old, and a pilot in the USAF.  My wife finally admitted to being in an affair about 3 1/2 weeks ago, so everything is still very fresh.  What makes this situation unique is that I also cheated on my wife 9 times over the course of about 3 years.  I stopped about 2 years ago.  However, she did...
  • Emerald0743

    Am I a fool?

    so a quick recap my poyfriend of almost 7 years was cheating on me for 13 months with a girl he was friends with for 6 years the relation ship between them unfolded when both their relationships were falling apart any how she messaged me i found out i forgave and told him to cut all ties that was in the begining of January                now fast forward to yesterday i found out he is...
  • FamilyGuy

    New to this group

    Hello. Some of you know me from te divorce/seperated group but my story meets the criterion for here I probably should have come here first as the impending seperation hasn't even happened yet....augh. I'm exhausted. It was december 28th when my wife finally confessed to her affair...after extensive accusations and evidence presentation had her completely cornered, its not like she just served it...