greenis
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- Well where do I start? Yes, my spouse was abusive and cheated multiple times (I'm over all that and him.) As of today I'm working on year 3 of my divorce. Yes three years in court. I am so in debt I can't afford to sneeze. I helped my husband with...
- "You can't love someone who doesn't love you. ""If he cared about our family he wouldn't be sneaking around town.""If he loved his family he wouldn't make us go without food.""Leave it to Karma.""Everything that falls out of his mouth is a lie.""I...
- I would go to the doctor but my husband canceled my health insurance months ago. I, like most of you, have been under a wealth of stress the past 6 months ... so much stress that my ears started ringing and I started having tremors or shaking a lot....
- My husband believes, with every ounce of his being, that I'm out to get him. He says and does things to hurt me because he's trying to get revenge on me for something I didn't do. It's taken me a while to figure out what's wrong with him, and I've...
- Yes, my husband had an affair ... it's been a year and we're trying to make it work; however, we're come to a stop sign ... His best friend is having an affair on his wife. And I am still on the roller coaster and am still dealing with triggers....
- Anyone else acknowledging V-Day as D-Day.
- Just made my little dogs heart shaped pancakes (doggie cakes). Made both of them new hats yesterday and baked them "I love you cookies" for their gifts.I'm happy today because my dogs love me, they always know when I'm sad, and they always know what...
- Was reading about this on yahoo, and yep ... it's a holiday my husband celebrated last year. This year ... remains to be seen.
- He makes me cry ... a lot. My eyes are always puffy now, I'm so embarrassed, anyone know how to reduce the eye swelling?Lord knows he makes me feel ugly, and stupid, and just flat out useless. Lord knows I've had three good days over the past year....
- I've misused my time (and money) looking for just the right marriage/relationship/self-help books to read. So, tell me which books have had the biggest impact on you and your marriage and, if you don't mind, why.Thanks.
- One of my best friends (we'll call her Jane Doe) just scolded me for cussing out my husbands ex/former/ ... mistress. I was hurt when she did this. She told me that I needed to forgive that girl, and the whole time I'm thinking, 'what the hell,...
- ... and I think I may be experiencing closure. I feel fantastic. I also found out that Karma has been raining wickedness down upon her precious feet. Nothing in her life is going right. Now, I just have to deal with my cheating husband ... I've...
- Is something wrong with me?For some reason, I now feel vengeful ... nothing bad, I just want him to feel the way he made me feel: ugly, stupid, poor, broke, insecure, lost, foolish, ... And I want him to feel it for five minutes longer than I've...
- ... and I just wanted to share.The H and I took his daughter (from his first marriage), who is visiting for Christmas, to the grocery store. When we were in the checkout line, I was near the credit/debit/EBT machine, he was bagging our little bit...
- My cheating spouse and I decided 6 months ago that we would try and reenter the community as a viable married couple. Briefly: I found a photo of a young woman on my husbands computer about 6 months ago and when I asked him if that was her ... he...