Mommy, though not V day (which i call 14B for me the 14th just doesn't exist!)...My now ex bought the OW the same things from Tiffany and Co as me, earrings. BUT i got a necklace too (how generous to give me more right....NOT)> and he also gifted us the exact same things for Christmas....

As for V day, well i never got anything, but i am guessing she did, and i am sure he did the same to me, but pretended he was at work, or with his cousins, or one of those lies...

MISTRESS DAY! ... (more like whore (w)holiday).

You know what my attorney told me, and it may be different in your state ... I'm in New York (the land of "everything is different here" ) But, for every dollar he spent on the whores in question, (plural) when we divorce, I can sue him for the money he spent on those 'broke down whale tales/whores' .

Forensic Accountant, here I come.

I will say this, since my husband has been ... neglecting me and the kids, Karma has rained a wrath of puss infected roaches on him. And he just doesn't see it.

1. lost his job
2. can't find full time work
3. someone busted out the windows in his car and took his "Oakley" glasses (and me and the kids are on effin food stamps) and his $300 navigational system.
4. His practice is failing (he's busy chasing nurses at work)
5. Someone ran in to his car
6. His child, from the ex, quit eating and her hair is falling out
7. IRS is after him for failing to file a 1099
8 ... on and on and on.

@ greenis ~ Karma IS a bitch, ain't it? = )

I like Karma :-)

Mommy224-

"He took her to a nice restaurant, got her a necklace, and then took her to a sleezy motel afterward. Then, he drove her home, picked up flowers for me and had them in a vase on the table the next morning. That night, he took me to the same restaurant and gave me the same necklace and celebrated Valentine's day with me."

This is absolutely disgusting and deplorable. He is the anti-christ.
What a F'ing low-life POS.

He is so low, I actually ALSO feel bad for the OW too!
Talk about being used.

OH...got a funny side story.

My STBX got the SAME love card from the OM a few weeks apart.
THE SAME FUCKING CARD.

When she told me that, I asked what she thought.
She said she felt it was a DOPEY mistake.

I said to her.....NO YOU IDIOT....HE BOUGHT THOSE LOVE CARDS SEVERAL AT A TIME AND FORGOT WHO HE GAVE THEM TO!!!!!

My now exe's OW even had the same name as me.

Makes it even fucking easier to duplicate gifts, cards, sms and not slip up with the name...

@ sydney: My STBX did the same thing ... kinda sick if you ask me.

It reminds me of Valentines Day for my Ex. I knew she was cheating on me and I managed to crack her boyfriend's email account. It turns out that he was just cut-and-pasting the same damn message to both his wife and my (ex)wife. I told the stupid bitch about it but she was too much in love to believe me. It's been 4 years and I still laugh my ass off thinking about it.

Today is our anniversary. I really hope he didn't celebrate it with her during their time together. Right now fighting the urge to look at the calendar and see what day the 13th fell on the past two years. We always celebrate our anniversary the weekend closes to it so not always on it.

My W says she hates Valentine's Day. She thinks it's blown out of proportion. She use to love the romance of the whole thing. I loved it too, but I know why things changed...she couldn't celebrate it with her lover - who has the same name as my son!!! It just all sucks now. Try to rebuild with someone who thinks that way even still.

Happy Monday!!

You know my counsellor said the same name thing is no co-incidence......

I wondered if i'd hear from my now ex today. But i didn't. He sms me 3 days ago for my birthday, it was all civil and ok but still i realised "oh geez, we still have our first V day apart to deal with"..

I hate Valentines Day... because out of the 16 years we'd been together the only time he ever got me antyhing that I didnt have make a big deal out of ,he got it on his own. a card a heart shaped box of chocolates and a rose was when he was cheating, he didnt bother to sign the card, he basically threw it at me , I was extremely sick with Pneumonia and on the phone fighting with my Dr because I dint want to be hospitalized and he walks in as Im on the phone and drops them on me ,"happy valentines day " I remember the card it had two beavers on the front of it 'Aren't you DAMNED glad I chose you " that card has resonated with me for years, because I think it was his subconcious way of telling me that he chose me over her , before I knew ... it all unraveled shortly after that.

It doesen't sruprise me that Feb 13 is Mistress day, Nothing surprises me anymore.. I once got a spam Email from Ashely. Com... "Isn't it about time you had an affiar?" its a website or business that creats alibies... I just started laughing. So much work goes into cheating, the lies, the sneaking around, living a double life, WHY? I told my Husband, "Wouldnt of been better just to tell me you were leaving me, and walk out , that you were un happy ?"

Today is D-Day for me. One year ago today he was looking out a hotel room window with a girl 23 years younger than him.

I am not going to cry, I am, however, going to be happy ... happy that I don't have to walk around branded with the name "whore" or "cheating POS" or "liar" .