Sexless Marriage Community Group

This group is for those people who find themselves married to a partner who has little or no interest in having a sexual relationship. This can be very painful for the other partner and leave them feeling rejected, unloved and unwanted. This is a group to provide support for this very painful and very private issue.

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veggiequeen 07/29/2018

I was just thinking... wondering? For some of us it has been sooo very long, but if we think back... what is it that we do miss the most?

Also, was there ever something you absolutely craved but they would never do for you? Did you ever ask them to do that ... or do as i did and just hope one day he'd take the hint?

veggiequeen 07/29/2018

If I can remember back that far...I do miss it all. lol Really though, I do so miss being touched and wanted. Without the simplest of human contact, I feel as desirable as a garden slug.

What did I crave... romance. My first (was only with 2 before stbx) did come up from behind , put his arms around me.. nibbled on my ear and kissed the side of my neck. I melted ( very quickly forgot what I was doing and we were doing what HE did have in mind. (wink, wink) I mentioned it in passing to stbx, he may have tried it once.

I am a poor deprived soul .Never really had passion (all 5 minute men) Never really on the receiving end of oral either. So have missed quite abit. No, I am thinking that may be what seems to make it worse.

finallyawakenow 07/29/2018

I miss the make out moments. That may not come back. Although we are doing much better in other areas of intimacy. What I crave is to have her be as enthusiastic about my body as I am of hers. Sigh. Think I will always be the one doing the chasing.

veggiequeen 07/31/2018

Another day.... and again missing sooo much... someone to confide and chat endlessly to. A chance to recapture the mystery and pleasure in coming to discover everything about a new person. To have the ability to learn of and accept every little detail about someone. (their body, heart and soul)
I truly am a romantic fool.

Mellanie 08/11/2018

I feel exactly the same. But I so confused with this bizarre situation that I feel guilty and ashamed to put my desires in words. Thanks for exposing your thoughts and feelings. I feel like you're describing myself.

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