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- There isn't really anything new to report, I am just having an off day. I haven't really written anything in a while. It's been a little over two months since our separation. I'm waiting for my attorney to send me the divorce decree so I can send it...
- In the past week, I have really really tried to focus on myself and not think about my stbx. I've actually been okay. I even had a lot of fun this past weekend with my friends. I've had my moments where thoughts creep back in my head, but then I try...
- Since finding out he is living with his new girlfriend that he was having An affair with who we fought about for months, I just can't get the image of them out of my head. I knew they would end up sleeping together, but living together already too....
- I know I've already posted about this but I am seriously having a hard time. My husband had an affair. He is now in an exclusive relationship with the woman who manages his restaurant. I always knew he had a thing for her. I did drive myself crazy...
- Well today was the day I found out he soon to be ex husband cheated on me. It's with a girl he works with. The one we would fight about when we were married. The one I saw him talk about in a way I knew spelt trouble. He shut me out for months...
- Met with my attorney today. What a depressing appointment. I guess all things went fairly smooth all things considered. She said the best way for us to file is a joint petition for " irretrievable breakdogwn of marriage." We aren't trying to split...
- I got through the weekend. Saturday was his birthday. It was the first special occasion we didn't spend together. It was hard. I missed him a lot and I spent the better half of the day crying. I really did want to wish him a happy birthday, I just...
- Today is my soon to be ex husband's birthday. It's the first special occasion I am spending away from him. I want to reach out to him, I want to wish him happy birthday, but I know I shouldn't. I will only get upset, and after all it is his day. I...
- This question is for everyone that is unfortunetly dealing with this. How do you get over your spouse being with someone else? If you are going through a separation or divorce and know your spouse or soon to be ex is with someone else, whether it...
- I don't know why but the past couple days I feel like I'm doing worse than I was before. On Saturday I had to talk to my soon to be ex about the divorce. The logistics about everything. That was all we talked about. It was a civil conversation no...
- I have not spoke, texted, emailed my soon to be ex husband in a little more than two weeks. I have read everyone's posts about how much easier to move on when there is no contact with your ex. Although it is hard not knowing what he is doing, where...
- Today I am just depressed. Every time I have to deal with logistics of our divorce I realize I am just getting screwed over again and again. Today I got my final Comcast bill after canceling the service. Not only did he rack up a huge bill in the...
- I was wondering if anyone from the state of ma has gone through this or might know the answer. When we got married, I took his last name. Long story short, I can not stand to even sign me name anymore because of the hurt and identity crisis it...
- Today marks one month since our separation. Everyone says I'm dealing with our upcoming divorce so well, that I am so strong, that "if it were me I wouldn't have even gotten out of bed! Id check my self into a psych ward!! How are you still going...
- Today I went back to our old place and got my things. It was hard, the anxiety leading up to it was difficult to sort through. I asked my sister to reach out to him to let him know I was coming and to please make sure anything that may be upsetting...