stefanie68
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- I'm a member of the Healing the inner child group. I just went to the message board and wrote "maybe everyone's inner child is in time out!" I did this because i noticed the group is not very active. Made me chuckle so i thought i would share...
- I'm in the process of figuring out my self-concept so I can change the parts that don't suit me anymore. I'm wondering if anyone has a template or a list of questions I can ask myself regarding my self-concept? I'm asking because I know I am...
- I can't seem to tear down this rediculus wall I erected as a child to protect myself from getting hurt. The irony is I am still getting hurt and hurting others. It has cost me relationships in the past and if I don't fix it, it will ruin my current...
- I am so tired of taking things personally! I only do it with certain people. Mainly my partner. Things that have nothing to do with me I will make it about me. What a freaking ego! HELP! Advice, books, articles, personal stories are all welcomed!...
- My partner needs medical attention for a kidney issue yet refuses to seek it. Coming up with excuses. We are both in the medical field so we know what needs to be done but my partner will not do it. I'm tired of it. For the past 6-8 weeks my partner...
- I had a recent realization. If someone close to me complained about something, I would find a way to take it personally even if it has nothing to do with me or in my control. Well the "Aha" moment came when I finally made up my mind to not take it...
- I have come to the realization that I have a fear of abandonment. I have noticed I don't like to "rock the boat" with my contradictory statements or beliefs with my partner because I fear she will leave me. Not that she would.I don't have this issue...
- I need advice. I tend to take responsibility for other people's moods. If someone I am close to is in a bad mood, I automatically think I did something and my mood changes. Thoughts begin to pop up in my head. For example, my partner is going to...
- Why do I seek others approval? I am not talking about complete strangers. I mean family and friends. Why do I feel the need to consider whether or not my choices will be "approved" by others? I often find myself considering what others may say if I...
- Instead of being honest with myself and others in my life, I tried to please others and got crapped on again. Instead of saying "No I can't", I said "sure I can do that" and now I'm regretting it. Well the lesson here is DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT FOR ME...
- I have a wonderful ability to make things all about me. For example, if someone comes to work mad or if my partner or friends are mad, I automatically think its something to do with me. What an ego I have. I have just recently realized this and I...
- I fell in love with a woman. It happened unexpectedly. My experience has only been with men. Everyone knows me as "straigt". I'm 40yrs old. So how do I start that conversation? I will admit. I am nervous about telling my family and friends. I guess...
- I've always considered myself straight. Well I'm finding myself falling for a openly gay woman. I have never felt such a connection with anyone. I'm physically attracted to men. But I've never been able to have the emotinal connection. It feels...
- Please read my journal entry for today and feel free to comment on it. Support is needed. I thought I could copy/paste it in here but it won't let me. BIG HUGS to all...
- How do you slow down enough to put things into action? For example reacting to something someone says or does whether it be a friend, family member or stranger. Reacting is so automatic I find I don't have time to slow down to process what has...