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- My divorce was final at end of March from a husband who emotionally detached himself from me a while ago in our 10 year marriage. I handled the divorce process like business and have been doing fine for a while. But this weekend I found out from...
- I haven't posted in a while because I have been handling the divorce okay so far. I just cried for the first time in a month at work because bad shit keeps on happening. My car didn't start on Saturday and I texted my Stbx and of course did not...
- Finally heard back from my lawyer and I emailed the petition of dissolution to my Stbx. Hopefully he hasn't hired a lawyer and ok with everything. Ugh my heart is racing.....
- So my Stbx and I are coparenting as we proceed with the divorce. He hasn't completely moved out but sleeps at his apartment now. I found out where he lives after asking him directly and the kids have not been there. Right now he comes by the...
- I just dropped off a check for the retainer fee for my attorney. I guess I am officially in the process of getting a divorce now. I thought I was ready but pretty emotional today...
- I was so ready to get this divorce done this weekend but now that I have the lawyer's agreement letter I am pausing at the 3% charge for using credit card. Is this normal?
- ugh sitting in my car waiting to go in. So nervous. Wish me luck!
- So my Stbx and I talked about getting a divorce in March and him moving out then after my work schedule slows down. But tonight he asked me what time I wanted him to come over to take the kids to school tomorrow morning. Apparently he started...
- I did everything I was not supposed to do. My 8 year old was acting up and I just blurted out about the divorce. He is very upset and I feel terrible. I texted my Stbx about it so he is aware. I have no excuse - that was poor timing and I...
- About to fall asleep and it's not even 10pm here! My Stbx was gone most of the week while my mom and sister were in town and we were busy running around with my kids going to the planetarium, ice skating, shopping, staying at a hotel in downtown...
- Hey I "slept in" until 5:30. I woke up a couple times in middle of the night but not from anxiety or crying just loud neighbors outside. I think that's a good start to this holiday!!
- so my mom and sister flew in today for the week. It's great being with them during this difficult time dealing with my impending divorce but all day my mom keeps on asking about the divorce -when is he moving, how are the kids going to school, etc...
- so my STBX and I just talked for about 10 min. We haven't really talked since we decided on divorce other than texts and emails about kids' schedules. We decided he should give the kids their presents tomorrow morning and leave for his dad's so...
- So my husband and I decided to wait to file for divorce until after February since my work is busy through then. And we said we would't tell the kids until he was moving out because it would be confusing for 8 and 4 year old. But today my 8 year...
- I sent an email to my husband some of the key issues that will come up during divorce - financial and custody. He was agreeable to everything. Including the fact that I want to wait to file until March since my work is the busiest in January and...