Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
Laurie- bless your heart i know the cramps are irritating you... Is there anything that helps? Like lying down?
Just take it easy and just take soothing breaths during this time. Big hugs!!!
Well today I decided to POAS and nothing. I know my beta isn't until Thursday but I feel so disappointed. I am hoping for a positive result. Was it to early to test? Does this mean I am not going to be pregnant? Oh so many questions and now I am going to need to try to stay positive. Does anyone have any stories of negative results at this stage but a positive at the end? I feel so helpless.
Nae - welcome! This place is an amazing place for support.
Babysteps - congrats on your retrieval! Wishing you lots of luck for your fertilizatiion report today.
Laurie - sucks about the cramps. You just ovulated like 5 eggs, which might be making you crampy, or maybe it's implantation cramps (hopefully). The 2ww sucks and there is no way to know what is going on but with 4-5 eggs and fresh sperm, you have a great shot - hope you're embies are dividing nicely and snuggle in!
Lisa - how many days post ER are you? It's never over until it's over. Hpts have a sensitivity threshold, below which they don't show positive. I once had a negative hpt on day 14 piui and then did blood work the same day and my beta came back at 7. I was considered pregnant despite the extremely low beta. Unfortunately it was a chemical pregnancy but the point is that implantation can happen anytime from day 6-12 and the beta will only start to rise after implantation, so you just never know.
As for me - tested again this morning and it's still positive. I was so scared it would be blank and that it hadn't been real but it's still there fortunately. I can't say it looks much darker but at least it doesn't look lighter, so that's something. My beta isn't scheduled until Friday but I may call the clinic and beg them for one today. I am definitely not the most patient person and I want to know the actual number so I can see if it doubles in a couple of days.
As for me, my ER was on June 28th. I had a 3 day transfer on July 1st. Today is 8 days since my transfer. I am hoping that I just tested early. I will test again tomorrow. Praying and staying positive (as much as I can) is all I can do.
Well I seriously didn't have patience. I went to the clinic and begged for a beta. It was originally scheduled for Friday. So.. I just got my number.
beta number 1 = 17
Low but it's only 11dpiui so I'm still hopeful. I asked for another beta on Wed so see if it doubles but they said no. They said that it's still too early and really I shouldn't have done it today. My next beta will be Friday, when it was originally scheduled (and we'll be looking for a number of 60 or higher).
I'm really happy but still a bit apprehensive. Maybe if I get a solid number Friday (and Monday) I'll be able be able to trust it a bit more. Wish I was like a normal person and could just enjoy but I'm going to try my best to believe it until the next blood draw on Friday. In all likelihood I'll keep poas daily in the meantime.
For the moment though, very happy!
Good luck ladies!!!
My 2ww begins! I test on July 23rd.