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- Has anyone had to deal with a spouse whose behaviors are totally differently at home versus in public?For example, he might throw money around with his friends or co-workers. Then at home, he's very controlling and stingy with money. Or he acts...
- I have tried to explain to my husband that when he does something upsetting or hurtful and then blames me for the problem, that it is like pouring salt on the wound.His response to that was to give me some advice on what I am doing wrong when I tell...
- We just had our third counseling session. This is the second time that the counselor has really pressed us about whether we truly want to continue with counseling. In his experience, couples in our situation usually don't stay together.This...
- Have any of you gone to counseling and felt like the process was far too slow? The counseling sessions go so quickly, and then we wait another week or two before the next session. Maybe we waited too long before going.
- After eating a considerable number of Dove chocolates, I have decided that the sayings in the little foil wrappers are quite profound. I am considering creation of a new religion based on these little words of wisdom and consumption of large...
- Have any of you ever been so hurt that you become almost blind with anger? I just want to find the one thing to say that will hurt him as deeply as he has wounded me.It is a terrible way to feel, and I don\'t know how to get out of this sense of...
- One spouse is miserably lonely in the marriage.The other spouse thinks the marriage is pretty good.How can this be?Talk amongst yourselves....
- Maybe I am expecting too much. I thought our first counseling session was horrible. It accomplished nothing. It felt like pouring salt into an open wound.My husband and I have had some absolutely terrible arguments. I was already feeling ready...
- Have any of you ever dealt with someone who cannot accept responsibility for their actions/words when they do something wrong or hurtful? At best, you might get a pseudo apology. They include the words "I'm sorry" but they are either apologizing...
- One day, I clicked on the dropdown menu of AOL to revisit a website and I saw the history of my husband's websites instead of my own. It was some sort of a computer glitch. I was shocked by what I saw.There was a predominance of sex websites. Not...
- Ever have one of those supposed friends who invites you to every home sale party (Tupperware,etc.), but never asks you over to her house for anything else? Then shows up at my house when it's time to sell her kid's Girl Scout cookies or magazines...
- Have you ever made an effort to make a new friend, only to find out the new friend is not so great? I made friends with someone who is okay in small doses, but has become domineering and sometimes mean (name calling).It might not be so hard to...
- What would the U.S. be if everyone drove a red vehicle?A red carnation.
- What did the monkey say as he sat with his tail across the train tracks?It won't be long now.What did the monkey say as he sat on the cash register and urinated?This is running into money.
- How do you decide when it is time to end a marriage?There have not been any shocking problems like affairs, alcoholism, physical abuse, etc. in our marriage. I just feel like my husband and I are emotionally divorced. We can't seem to spend more...