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- Since dday and my husband's willingness to come back to his senses I've had one wish. I've wished for her to find a man. If she could be happy and the kid have a father that would be great. Bonus, if her new man would adopt the kid, then we wouldn't...
- I'm not starting a political debate but I am curious who has undergone a political metamorphasis since dday.I think I changed dramatically since all of this. I think I became even more empowered and proud to be a woman knowing that I could accept my...
- I know this new site kinda sucks but it would be nice to know what everyone is up to?!Any changes with you, AP, OC?Anyone else need support or encouragement?I've had a trigger,,, sort of, and I always find it helpful to say something/anything nice...
- Since D-day things have been messy, of course, but since he came home little great things have happened.H got a raise that covered CS payments, things picked up at my job and we were doing ok financially. We started living on the edge however and my...
- So arrearages have been paid and we are paying cs monthly. All of the legal issues are settled.Now, OW takes kid to Dr. and tries to use the insurance card she had (she already know that my H had a new job so she should have known that meant new...
- We need both of our incomes to live as we do and I just got fired.I had been complaining of sexual harassment; I was being verbally bullied with aggressive, sexual language. I complained twice in writing and then once more when I found a hate note...
- If you all can't tell, I'm a bit of a self-help junkie. I find lots of TED talks that interest me because I like how the science of psychology works and I like to see me, as a human, fall into specific catagories that may not have anything to do...
- So this happens every so often.Usually I'm very positive and bravely daring the world but every so often I find myself having a little too much wine and sitting by myself, I'm a terrible night owl, and wondering what the OW is up to now.I started...
- Today parenting shared a story on their Facebook wall about a woman who found that her husband had been having an affair while she was pregnant. She didn't share any details and all the reader knows is that they are now divorced. The point of her...
- Today is the day we go to court to determine child support. She is making the 10 hour drive back to our state where her child was conceived so she can get more money for a longer period of time, 19 here.It'll be the second time to meet her in person...
- I wanted to start a thread about something positive.The last thread I read ended with Aunt saying that if we end a marriage because of a lack of trust we may end up being unhappy in different ways.Oh, how right she is.I'm asking you all to share...
- We are still going through the courts to determine CS and it's taking a while because all of the DHR avenues have to sign off on the reduced amount of CS because of our kids.Our attorney sent a proposal and the DHR attorney is working on it and...
- I was recently tested for allergies. The tests were nearly $450.The doctor said that the only thing that will make a remarkable difference is allergen immunotherapy. Looking at the eatimates, after insurance I will pay almost $5000 out of pocket...
- How does your religion play into your daily lives?Have you found forgiveness and happiness with religious support?Does your husband show real sorrow and remorse for what he has done and use his faith as a way to get through it and move on and be...
- Is anyone else in a situation where there is no contact?I figured if there was no child there would be no contact of course. So why does it matter that there is a child involved? It makes life complicated and messy but I feel a lot better knowing...