spouses and illegitimate children Community Group
Dealing with your spouse not only having an affair but a child as a result and how it affects your day to day life and the lives of your children.
So this happens every so often.
Usually I'm very positive and bravely daring the world but every so often I find myself having a little too much wine and sitting by myself, I'm a terrible night owl, and wondering what the OW is up to now.
I started posting to this page when I found her fb profile for the first time and saw the OC's picture. That was a trigger at the time but it quickly disappeared. I say that but I do check her page frequently and I've only seen any update to her profile picture on OC's b-day.
I know I don't need to but I really want to know what is going on.
I think, mostly, I just want to start anext argument or something.
Any advice on late night online debating that can occupy my time instead of that?
Usually I'm very positive and bravely daring the world but every so often I find myself having a little too much wine and sitting by myself, I'm a terrible night owl, and wondering what the OW is up to now.
I started posting to this page when I found her fb profile for the first time and saw the OC's picture. That was a trigger at the time but it quickly disappeared. I say that but I do check her page frequently and I've only seen any update to her profile picture on OC's b-day.
I know I don't need to but I really want to know what is going on.
I think, mostly, I just want to start anext argument or something.
Any advice on late night online debating that can occupy my time instead of that?
I like making a 'no fail environment '
Just out of curiosity, how does your MIL going to the babyshower work? I mean, the OW must be shameless.
"Hi, Aunt Suzy, I'd like you to meet my bastard's father's mother. She is really excited that I'm pregnant with his child even though he is married to someone else. She has really convinced me that we can all work together to be a big, happy family and that I, his whore, and his wife are so excited for the addition to the family. I mean, I'm going to make sure to get most of the attention and sympathy, even if i have to break a few laws and cause emotional trauma, but it's going to be great!!"
...what happened to American families? It used to be that the mistress and bastard had to hide in the back and never got to demand anything but now society has allowed them to not "pay for their crimes" and they have no shame.
I assume you are in a no contact situation as well. You'll be in my prayers, sister!