So arrearages have been paid and we are paying cs monthly. All of the legal issues are settled.

Now, OW takes kid to Dr. and tries to use the insurance card she had (she already know that my H had a new job so she should have known that meant new insurance) and it was declined. She calls my H from her mothers phone because I blocked her from calling his. I called her back from mine and was very polite and told her that I was in touch with the new HR guy and I would get her new info and that I was sorry for the inconvenience.

So I get the new card and take pics and send it back to the number I had. She said thanks but that since her mother doesnt get in the middle of "[MY H NAME] and I's business" that I should leave her out of it and contact her. She said it wouldnt be an issue if she wasnt "childishly blocked from his phone".

Im thinking to sending a note with the new insurance card reading...

"Adultresses who think they are entitled to a personal relationship with a married man from whom she stole his sperm and choice is childish.

A wife who protects her family, husband, her self, and her sanity by any means necessary is wise."

Do you think I should? Im trying to be above her but since all of the legal stuff is done I would really like to be a bitch... just once.