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- It has been several months since i have been here... I can see i missed much!Its nice to have jumped on and see that so many are doing so well! For those of you who don't know... My H has been commuting over the past 4 years. Seeing each other only...
- And perhoas petty, but it realy bothers me.Okay.. We have all had the discussion about greeting cards, how in our situation, they are just off the mark.Anyway, iwhen giving me a card , he would frquently write "you are my one and only," which BEFORE...
- A great little article i thought worht sharing!http://affairrecovery.us2.list-manage1.com/track/click?u=ddea1fea11fb4cc4e9031b9e6&id=751760e3a1&e=1e9814b620
- Has anyone participated in the Retrouville Program?If so, i would love to hear your thoughts, reviews., etc. Was it helpful and at what point post DDay, or in your rebuilding, did you attend?Thank you so much!
- There is no denying that what we have all experienced has changed who we are. Personally, I liked myself just fine before the A, and unfortunately I developed traits that are not what I would call redeeming qualities (although understandable):...
- When discovery is fresh, the subject is at the forefront of every conversation, but eventually the frequency diminishes. (Halleluhaj). I am just curious how often you and your spouse touch on the subject of his/her infidelity. I know that it is SO...
- Hi everyone.Although "absent" for a few weeks, you all have been on my mind and I hope your Holidays went well and were relatively trigger free. My prayer for all is that the new year is one of continued healing and restoration, that we will all...
- My husband and i have been working very hard on rebuilding. I, occasionally find myself stuck between anger and grief. I continually try all of the mindfulness techniques, etc., etc. Some days are really.. "Okay," yet there are others where i will...
- Hi everyone.For those of us who may still struggle with imagery and very powerful triggers, was emdr ever considered as part of your therapy. If so, did you find this helpful to address some major stressors. I have posted before on how difficult...
- I know we have all been at this point and i am sure if I searched the archives there is a plethora of thought on this.For those of us who are rebuilding, how has everyone has felt/dealt with their anniversary. My 25th is looming just around the...
- It has been awhile since i have been on here. July was a tough month, August proved to be better... Both H and I are working so hard on restoring our marriage. Although my request that he read articles, etc., was met with resistance, he has finally...
- For which i am so grateful. It wasn't easy. But i am standing... No longer in a crumpled little heap. And yes.. It was my H who helped me through it. I received more compassion and understanding than I have from him in quite awhile. I am...
- Hi everyone.I think I just need some encouragement, vent or something... I am having a REALLY tough time right now, starting yesterday. This month holds many significant dates. d-day and confession day, a year later, yet almost to the date of the...
- Hi everyone. While rebuilding have any of you hit a really rough patch?My H and I have had a horrible month.He is trying to do all he can, but it to him doesn't seem to be enough becauseI still have some major emotional days. Still experiencing...
- I also posted the following on the "rebuilding " thread: Like many of us on here, i often find myself on that emotional roller coaster. Vacillating between seeing the good in my man, and then momentarily feeling that punch in the gut. My H and iI...