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- I was talking to a friend tonight who is involved with an abuser, physically, mentally, emotionally and who she is trying to endure. Right now he is turning up the heat by alienating her 18 year old daughter from her or providing her with stuff...
- I think it is the being dismissed that is so so hurtful. For me on the day I was told I had the all clear on cancer, after spending a year fighting it with no support from him and watching him leave me in front of my eyes, I collapsed. There was no...
- I dont come onto the site often these days because 18 months have gone by and during that time I have managed to find some form of detachment from my ex, after acting as psycho ex girfriend, texting obsessively, contacting his new girlfriends,...
- Hey guys, I have not been here for a very long time. Dunno if when I was last here I had already got cancer........but what is a fact now is that I have been apart from my ex for 18 months and it has been 18 months of hell getting over him. I truely...
- Hey guysI have not been on the site for a couple of weeks or more, but tonight I visit to share my experiences of this last couple of weeks, and to get your feedback. Or I think I will go mad. Is the insight I think I have developed around my own...
- Hi GuysThanks for letting me write. It is late at night in cape town south africa and I am sitting with another experience of abuse that I had earlier, with a new person, and forcing myself to look at my part in it, not to self flagellate, but to...
- Hey guysI am living in a house share since leaving my ex, with six other people in the house that I am in. There is a musician, a sound engineer, a guy studying law and more. The musician is Irish about 57 years old and attractive in some ways.My...
- So back to the same theme for those who have been following me and kindly helping me or giving suggestions. My dogs and the fact that my ex has estranged me from them completely and will now not even let me see the and remember I own them...
- I haven't been on line for some time, have not been able to talk about it all, but tonight I need to. I can see that I am literally falling apart and experience the effect of this person on me. Those who have followed my posts know that my ex...
- After being stupid enough to make contact twice and be rejected, berated, blamed, spoken to like shit, told he will take a restraining order against me, that i am harassing him, that he has no love for me, that i am abusing him, and more, is it ok...
- Those who have been following me know the trauma I am exposed to about my ex holding onto my dogs and trying to take them away from me. I have arranged that their ownership papers are in my name but his bully nature and dominant character is at work...
- I have read in many of these posts that those of us exposed to a sociopathic relationship must not blame ourselves and instead we were victims of someone with a severe and sick personality disorder - this I see. But I still ask myself what in me was...
- I made a big mistake today, I have been so good at having no contact with my ex which keeps the distance. I learnt hard weeks ago that after a long discussion with him he reeled me right in again and i literally cracked open emotionally afterwards,...
- Why is it that general people out there, friends, family, whoever, don't believe you when you describe your experience with a sociopath, is it because they don't want to hear anything so unsavoury or they don't believe you or what? I know now not to...
- Where is my self confidence?Firstly, I spent 20+ years looking after and caring for my drug addict sister who completely manipulated me and took me for a ride financially, I paid for everything, including her 8 rehabs, her car, her furniture, her...