Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
During the relationship, I was blind, stupid even - didn't see the faults that were clearly in front on us!
Now that it is over, I can see how wrong it was. I know now that it was a toxic environment for both of us and the only way for either of us to be happy was to get out.
I find that I am happier now, and it's still only been a few weeks. But I can't stop thinking about whether or not he will be okay! I keep checking in on the bank accounts - to make sure he has enough money. I worry everyday about him.
Why can't I get him out of my head - shouldn't all that concern be gone now? He was the one who wanted the divorce, and here I am stuck thinking about his welfare!
Anyone else doing the same?
Now that it is over, I can see how wrong it was. I know now that it was a toxic environment for both of us and the only way for either of us to be happy was to get out.
I find that I am happier now, and it's still only been a few weeks. But I can't stop thinking about whether or not he will be okay! I keep checking in on the bank accounts - to make sure he has enough money. I worry everyday about him.
Why can't I get him out of my head - shouldn't all that concern be gone now? He was the one who wanted the divorce, and here I am stuck thinking about his welfare!
Anyone else doing the same?
But seriously, snice we have the kids I do still worry a little, just not as much. It's been hard enough to work through this separation - I couldn't imagine if something happened to him and I had to explain that to my kids.
Even during our marriage in the final years I wanted to leave him. Well he finally was the one that did it and I'm sitting here hurting...??????
WHY???? I don't want to perpetuate my own pain, but I can't get over this and having problems with moving on for some reason.
I have my good days and bad days, but I do still love him and he says he loves me, but feels this is the best.
We have a daughter and a house together. The house thing is taking a long time to get through, but I just want to be through this and at the end of it.
He's detached from me and is now moving on, but still so intertwined in my life b/c of the house and child. I want him to be gone so I can move on, but it's only prolonging it.
Two weeks have gone by, I realize now what really was going on all that time, thought about how much he really lied and took from me and yet I still love him so I sent him packing with a good chunk of money to make sure he could get set up a new place. I am worried he will be ok too.
If you find a reason why we are still constantly thinking about, worrying about and wondering about someone that could have hurt us as much as they did... drop me a line!